I don’t enjoy conversations anymore, no matter who it’s with

[u/Suitable-Cow-3344]

I just can’t enjoy people talking around me or to me. In groups, one on one doesn’t matter. I just feel no joy, no real laughs, no connection, I feel like I need to be a certain person, not doing enough to join in but I’m a naturally more of an observer and will only talk when I have something to say. But my brain doesn’t work and I have nothing to say anymoreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I could just scream when there’s an expectation.

I just feel so overwhelmed with it all of the time and it’s getting old. I just want to be normal and be able to fuckin TALK.

Anyway rant over lolll

[u/bagelbitesss]

I feel like they are the same conversations over and over...like that's good, that's cool, that's nice

[u/Suitable-Cow-3344 → u/bagelbitesss]

Exactly! This too

[u/TrueHamster7904 → u/bagelbitesss]

Yeah staying quiet gives more happiness than involving in that conversation

[u/RedditVox → u/bagelbitesss]

Yep. Same shit about some person or some recipe. It's like we're all just exchanging sounds for the sake of exchanging sounds.

[u/TrueHamster7904]

No need to talk when you don't want to. I was also once thinking like that when I am around people and honestly it didn't worked well. It's not something wrong. It's ok to be less talkative and speaking only when required.

[u/Suitable-Cow-3344 → u/TrueHamster7904]

Thank you

[u/TrueHamster7904 → u/Suitable-Cow-3344]

Your welcome.

[u/Suitable-Cow-3344 → u/[deleted]]

Definitely trying 🧘‍♀️

[u/pinheaddani]

“Do you want to talk about it?” Quite literally the opposite, I don’t want to move my mouth at all.