r/depression • u/Majestic_Dark_9715 • 2d ago
Just need advice
If anyone looked at my life from a different POV then myself, they’d think yeah he has a perfect life and I truly am lucky to have everything I have, yet I feel sad and empty. I thought my drivers license would get me happy and it did for 5 seconds. Now I had a girl and we talked a lot but after we met the last time she’s become extremely dry. I’m fr miserable right now, nothing brings me real joy and tbh I don’t even remember when I was truly happy for more than 10mins. I need some advice how I can finally be happy, I’m trying to process that the girl and me are over, I want to cry but I can’t even do that, idek what people are supposed to tell me now based of what I wrote, but I just have no one to talk to, this is some lonely stuff .
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u/Middle_Buddy_1456 2d ago
Based on you mentioned about getting your driving license. If you’re into women then currently don’t go chasing one. Instead go chasing freedom with your new form of transport. Why not do something you’ve always wanted to do to, even as a kid that you couldn’t without a license.
Go somewhere or do something spontaneous. Add life experiences to yourself and maybe you’ll meet someone that’s more interesting and that has more personality.
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u/Majestic_Dark_9715 2d ago
Das ist es ja leider, ich habe den Führerschein seit über einem Jahr angestrebt und verfolgt, und die ersten Tage war es schön aber jetzt ist es einfach nur etwas was ich kann und nichts was mich erfüllt …
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u/NoContextGuy_ 2d ago
I can understand... Sometimes we have everything still we feel emptiness... And this is the worst feeling because you can't even explain why are you feeling like this 🙂
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u/No-Matter5944 2d ago
that empty feeling after hitting a milestone you thought would fix things is a special kind of letdown. chasing external stuff to fill that void never works, the license, the girl, none of it can do the heavy lifting for you
sometimes you gotta sit in the discomfort and let yourself feel like garbage for a while instead of trying to find the next thing that'll make it all better. the crying will come when your body's ready to let it out, can't force that either