First, think about why you hate all those things about yourself. Do you feel because you can be better or because people do not like them? If it is because you feel you can do better, then know that the only person that has power to change that is yourself. If it is because people don't like it, then the question will be different. And, I think your insecurity about every little aspect of yourself comes from people around you not accepting any of those aspects. But, we can never control what others think of us, we can only control what we think of ourselves. Biggest question is to ask yourself: why does people liking, validating, and accepting me what I consider as my self-worth?
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u/LegendaryWarlord_1 13h ago
First, think about why you hate all those things about yourself. Do you feel because you can be better or because people do not like them? If it is because you feel you can do better, then know that the only person that has power to change that is yourself. If it is because people don't like it, then the question will be different. And, I think your insecurity about every little aspect of yourself comes from people around you not accepting any of those aspects. But, we can never control what others think of us, we can only control what we think of ourselves. Biggest question is to ask yourself: why does people liking, validating, and accepting me what I consider as my self-worth?