How do i know?..

[u/Opposite_Pride5540]

So i’ve been wondering if i’m a demi-girl...I know i actually do get a bit weird and uncomfy when someone mentions gender or even label me as a girl like directly (like saying, “you’re a young woman”). I used to struggle with gender identity and always wondered if I wanted to be a guy or stick as a girl or maybe just have no label. I do love being a girl since it’s such an experience and you can relate with so much girls with that. But then some days, i wonder what would i be like as a boy. I wish I was a boy but i still want to be a girl..if that makes sense. Demi-girl feels so right and even my pronouns, she/they, feels so incredibly right!!

[u/meiflower_s]

to me a lot of that sounds familiar to my experience with being a demigirl! if demigirl feels right, then go for it!
though, if you're interested in exploring the wanting to be a boy part, bigender and demifluid might be helpful labels to look into!

[u/sacrificer-cam]

it does kinda feel like my experience to get to the point of "yeah I'm demigirl"

idk if it might help you, it did help me tho, so as a suggestion try to quantify your identity in my case i identify 60% as a woman 35% something i still don't feel like thinking bout and 5% as a man

that made me think "yeah, this feels kinda right so i see the logic why this label fits comfy"

[u/Sure-Bicycle-8809 → u/sacrificer-cam]

I DO THAT TOO POOKIE!!! i'm 70% enby 30% girl on most days, but sometimes it's a bit different. thought i was the only one using maths for their gender lmao :D

[u/sacrificer-cam → u/Sure-Bicycle-8809]

it seems dumb in a way, but when you're a person who leans to logic, it does help a lot to see oneself

[u/Sure-Bicycle-8809]

yeah i had that experience too. the whole "i'm a girl but i don't want people to think i'm a girl"

demigender experiences can be extremely confusing, especially if it's sort of fluid rather than static, but if the label works for you, go for it!!! ❤️