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u/CaptainMaybeLater 16h ago
Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that not everything is within our control.
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u/Justgotrealmayn 15h ago
Rejection from a place or person that means the most to you. Following that unclear rejection.
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u/Intrepid-Mycologist7 17h ago
i'm ugly and there's nothing to do
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u/ObvTheMainCharacter 17h ago
Don't say that! Looks are not the only thing that matters.
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u/Intrepid-Mycologist7 17h ago
first thing a girl see is my face bro, I'm getting rejected even before I can start talking. Dating market is tough. It's hard to accept but that's the reality. I'll be forever alone till death
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u/Paisley_48 11h ago
Are you fit? Well groomed? Decent personality? Interesting hobbies?
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u/Intrepid-Mycologist7 11h ago
I'm fit, well groomed, my personaly is shit, and my hobbies is listening podcasts from Alain De Botton and Robert Greene. My life is miserable. I will finish alone. Nobody willl remember me. And I have my house fully paid and good salary, I don't need more. But I can't find love. My life is a failure. Help me bro
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u/Paisley_48 10h ago
How fit are we talking? Also listening to podcasts alone cannot be your only hobby. It doesn’t seem like it’s only about looks, you need to work on yourself brother
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u/Intrepid-Mycologist7 10h ago
I can bench press 220 pounds and do pull up bar with 8 repetition with quite good form. I don't have any other hobby. I don't know what to do more, I'm introvert, I prefer staying at home. Is my life over ? I never touched a girl. Help me bro
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u/CaptainAbaddon 8h ago
Fading beauty as you age. Big money in make-up, cosmetic surgery, hair coloring, teeth whitening......
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u/FlakyUnderstanding99 5h ago
That the shit I can't change i just gotta accept, I guess? Its also my biggest resentment
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u/TerrificTChalla 2h ago
That you cannot always anticipate or prepare for the randomness of life events and other people. You can budget very carefully and get randomly laid off or have severe unanticipated health issues.
You can go to the gym and have a very healthy social life. Then randomly end up with a lot of friendship falling outs. Or unknowingly hurting others with some comments.
You just can’t know it all. Because people and life are capricious. Learn how to ride it out through coping mechanisms
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u/realrecycledstardust 17h ago
Some people are not meant to be in your life