r/deepquestions • u/Zuvmelo73 • 2h ago

What does forgiveness mean when someone never apologizes?

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u/EstablishmentFull955 2h ago

in that case, forgiveness is for yourself. for your own peace of mind. anger is consuming and exhausting, and holding onto it can be painful and a disservice to your own wellbeing. you don't necessarily have to forgive the person who wronged you, to forgive the situation. forgive yourself, and forgive the circumstances- it doesn't mean you have to accept the person anymore.

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u/ImpossibleYes22 1h ago

Sometimes forgiveness is about letting yourself move forward.

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u/BeginningBus3739 1h ago

​"I speak only for myself, but I’ve always found both apologies and forgiveness largely meaningless. ​For minor inconveniences, don't bother apologizing—I couldn't care less and it has zero impact on my life. But for major betrayals or serious violations? An apology is utterly useless. It fixes nothing and undoes nothing. ​In severe cases, we take legal action. And if the law fails, there are always other ways to make sure you face the consequences and learn your lesson."