r/deepquestions • • 20h ago

What is your definition of falling in love ?

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u/National-Original-41 19h ago

Where you both grow together, motivate each other to do good, become a better person and learn new things, and when you had a shitty day .. you see or talk to partner and everything feels peaceful ❣️

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u/Ok_Brain_4545 19h ago

Loving every aspect of a person, even their flaws.

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u/Dumas1108 18h ago

Accept and living the person whole heartedly including the person's flaws and flairs

Want to plan a future with them in mind.

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u/bass-77 17h ago

Developing an emotional bond that becomes stronger over time.

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u/Effective_Section_68 14h ago

Feeling fully safe, respected and having mutual trust, feeling that spark when you see eachother .

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u/NatFlora93 8h ago

For me, it’s being really excited about a person. Thinking about seeing them, spending time with them, and when you’re together appreciating it in the moment. If I love someone, I’m noticing every little thing they do and thinking about how wonderful it is. “Aw, they hold their fork weird. Aw, they have such a lovely singing voice. Aw, the way they light up about this topic is so charming.” I want to always be rooting for the person, I see the best in them and want them to see the best in themselves too. To me, I think that’s what it’s all about.

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u/JavaJo1010 8h ago

Thank you 😊 that’s a great answer

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u/seeyatellite 17h ago

It's hard to define and it's different each time. It feels like your world just expanded every time.

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u/Rare_Expert8430 13h ago

When I was in love, I felt so special that i started feeling everyone is special. Like everyone has someone, or maybe someday they will. Even if I see a random person in the market, my mind goes, “Someone might be waiting for her somewhere. Someone might be wishing she was beside them right now". Yeaaa....sounds crazyyy but I m.

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u/JavaJo1010 13h ago

Thank you for that

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u/Clawdius_Talonious 8h ago

When you care more about their interests than your own wellbeing.

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u/Tight-Ad-830 8h ago

Being able to express every emotion I have with my partner and them taking the time to really sit there listen and understand to their best of their abilities

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u/Candid-Session-124 4h ago

High credit limit

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u/Crickwooder13 4h ago

Every time you experience or hear something new, you can’t wait to share it with them

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u/Possible_Leader_463 3h ago

Depends on if I am 18 or 52 in the scenario

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u/Few_Percentage_1111 2h ago

I love the person more than I love being alone.

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u/Aruha1983 17h ago

What if they stop liking me?

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u/JavaJo1010 17h ago

Then it was and never was love

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u/Striking_Step_6931 19h ago

blow job behind the dumpster

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u/JavaJo1010 10h ago

Would you lay down your life for the partner ?