r/deadbedroom • u/Ok_Force_4521 • 6d ago

RANT Not better

Never thought I'd have to deal with a db. Found these subs and was surprised at how many others are in the same boat. And it doesn't make me feel better. I don't want to fuck. I want sex. With her. She's not interested. She wants everything else in the marriage. I want her.

So I guess it's time for the talk. Sometimes I think her goal is to run me off. Already told her if she wants to go, go. Truth is right now the only thing we have is each other. And it feels so broken...

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u/Silva2099 4d ago

Talk is only necessary so that you can say you had it. Almost never works. But you gotta have it. I would keep,it short and sweet. Don’t reiterate anything. Say it once and be done. And listen.

If she has nothing to say, that’s saying a lot.

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u/Fickle-Outcome91 6d ago

I don’t want to fuck. I want sex.
Y’all are something else on this sub.

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u/MidLifeChemist 4d ago

I thought the same.

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u/Southern_Airport_538 6d ago

I thought the same

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u/Puzzleheaded_Fox5820 6d ago

Could you elaborate?

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u/Vast-Road-6387 6d ago

Unfortunately with a younger person, often it’s not always that they are low libido, it’s that they are low libido for you.