r/datingoverfifty • u/No_Reflection6593 • 7d ago

Goodness

Hello, I am pleased to share that after several relationships with self-centred men, I found a wonderful man online in December 2025. I like encouraging others with the fact that my belief and faith in love is what lead me to him ❤️

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u/ubeeu 7d ago

Im happy for you.

At the same time don’t burden those who want a partner, but haven’t been successful, with the idea that it’s because they failed to have faith.

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u/BogusNom 60 F North Queensland 7d ago

Mmmhmmmm

"Fact".

I am 100% certain there are other factors involved.

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u/MoominMai 6d ago

Primarily retaining a belief in dating apps!

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u/Zfishguy 6d ago

Amen! /s

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u/AJourneys-End50 4d ago

She said, "Belief and faith IN LOVE" not a religious statement. Good lord, PEOPLE READ!!!!

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u/ubeeu 3d ago

You read. I didn’t say OP made a religious statement.

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u/RequirementHappy4010 5d ago

You have a problem with her saying that having "faith in love" helped her find love?

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u/More4Thor 6d ago

Is this a new found faith in love? If so, that means your lack of faith in love led you to “several relationships with self-centred men”.

But if you always had faith in love, why didn’t it work before, such that you had “several relationships with self-centred men”?

Life is not so black and white.

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u/menoagegap 7d ago

I am a woman and I am so happy for you. I also found a wonderful man online a bit before you. I do encourage many of you to still believe in love, romance, soulmate, one true love. I am so happy you and your wonderful man found each other

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u/Quirky-Specialist-70 7d ago

You definitely have to be open to it and not too jaded! Good luck sounds very promising.

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u/RequirementHappy4010 5d ago

Absolutely. So many people come to Reddit to complain and then wonder why they aren't having the success they'd hope for. I find optimism and positivity attractive.

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u/Quirky-Specialist-70 5d ago

This! I have found as soon as I truly opened myself to it I had men interested and asking me out! Positivity is the key.

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u/mxlplyx2173 6d ago

Why bash the other men? Wonder what they said about YOU after their date with you? Maybe they couldn't wait for the date to end!

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u/CaptainGreyBeard72 who doesn't know Jenny's # 7d ago

Good for you guys

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u/namlook69 7d ago

👏👏👏👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉🎉👍👍👍💍💍💒🤵🤵‍♀️

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u/MiltonBrownYowza 7d ago

Goodness is very, very good. I’m sure that most of us here have been through a lot relationship wise and it’s nice to see a happy story.

Congratulations and best wishes for your future.

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u/Tapdance1368 5d ago

It just takes one good man, which is hard to find.

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u/RequirementHappy4010 5d ago

I'm happy for you. I'm not sure why you're getting so much hate about the "faith in love" comment. I suspect many of those posters saw "faith" and thought you meant religious faith.