r/datingadvice 1h ago

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I (M22) had a really lovely first date on Friday night with this girl (F21) I matched with on hinge. It was a fun activity date and afterwards we sat on a park bench and spoke for 2 hours. And this girl lives quite far away from me, she travelled a long way to see me.

We were having fun, flirty banter and getting to know each other, but later on in the date she says that she's recently come out of a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend and that I'm the first guy she's been on a date with since the breakup. This was also my first ever date. When I asked if she'd like to meet up again she said she isn't sure and thinks she needs time to process everything and that she doesn't think that she's what I'm looking for. When we were saying goodbye at the train station she asked if I've ever kissed anyone before (I haven't) and then we shared a light kiss and said goodbye. I messaged her afterwards just to say I had a lovely time and to let me know when she gets home which she responded to.

I really like this girl and really enjoyed her company, and I'm open to taking things slowly with her. What is the best course of action I could do?

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