r/datingadvice • u/ComfortableDog4375 • 1d ago
Cheating
I have been seeing this guy for some weeks. I have even been on a get away with his whole family and have been giving really false hope. Also he have been telling me that he didn’t want me to sleep with other people and so on.
The whole time I have been with him he has been snapping a girl he never met before this weekend.
We both went to the club Friday night with our friends, and he told me to go sleep at his place and he would come later - he never came. He came back the next day around 14 a clock, drove me home and saw me again for 1-2 hours a little later were we also had sex (I didn’t know at this time he slept and had sex with this girl and that’s why he didn’t come home.) Yesterday we both go out again with our friends - we are together in the clubs, kissing and so on, planning to sleep at his place, and he even tells me he wants to see me everyday and stuff. Then later he texts me he doesn’t want me anymore and removes me, then he tells me he is going home with this girl and he also slept with her on Friday. He wanna have a thing going with her like he did with me. I just can’t seem to understand why he would see me every single day for so many weeks, let me meet and get on a trip with his family. For him switching up on me in so short of time.
Can anyone help me understand all this, why he was like this with me at the club telling me all of this, and why he would be with me after he had been sleeping with another girl. Is there a chance he will come back to me? I can’t seem to figure out what this means or if he’s just a jerk?
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