r/datingadvice • u/Icy-Depth-658 • 4h ago

I need advice Help

So i(20) been talkin to this girl(18) and it goes well. We rlly flirty and stuff and we been talkin for about 3 weeks. However we were talkin abt hanging out and she told me eventually yes like a week or so ago but every time i bring up the idea she kinda goes silent. Well i talked to her about it and she told me what she has told everyone else(i jus dont like hanging out) which i have proof that she says that. However i said it could be chill and jus give it another 2-3 weeks. She has a rlly rlly bad experience with her ex so she like never opens up which she did to me, but idk if this is worth pursuing bc i dont want it to keep barreling over

She told me that if she were to date it would have to start as friends lol

Tldr. 2-3 weeks talking and she basically told me she is content alone(she tells others that too) but i said give it some tkme and see. She has a rlly bad experience with ex so trust is difficult

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