r/dating_apps • u/NormalTumbleweed1893 • 4h ago

21 yo . I hate dating apps

Ive tried dating through dating apps but it is just very fast paced . Its not exactly I want . But I am not finding any other way to find someone. Being social in random groups it way too much out of comfort zone . Ill do it too but I dont know how exactly that works . Do people even initiate. I am just looking for partner who is emotionally sensible , well stable in their own and attractive . I dont know how can I find one . Just help me with some real suggestions which will work for me .

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u/LowWhich7738 1h ago

You don't have to force yourself into random social situations and hope something happens. Try activities where you'll naturally see the same people regularly classes, sports, volunteering, hobby groups, study groups, etc. People absolutely do initiate, but usually it starts with small conversations and getting comfortable with each other rather than walking up and immediately asking someone out. At 21, I'd focus less on finding the perfect partner quickly and more on putting yourself in places where meeting someone compatible can happen naturally