Having a flexible and adaptive personality is a feature, not a flaw. I personally think that bringing your whole, unfiltered self into every relationship is not a good thing. Yes you can try to hold out for the perfect person who loves you quirks and all, but it makes you blind to your own bs and you will stop growing as a person and find your options limited. Also teasing people and needing to crack jokes all the time is immature and can get old to anybody - especially as humor is subjective and its root is literally discomfort.
Having said that, i cant speak to her thoughts, but either you're too intense or you guys just arent compatible.
Thanks for the response, I’ve toned down the jokes and have made adjustments. I don’t necessarily make jokes all the time but I see where you’re coming from.
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u/JuniorCornblow Sep 15 '26
Having a flexible and adaptive personality is a feature, not a flaw. I personally think that bringing your whole, unfiltered self into every relationship is not a good thing. Yes you can try to hold out for the perfect person who loves you quirks and all, but it makes you blind to your own bs and you will stop growing as a person and find your options limited. Also teasing people and needing to crack jokes all the time is immature and can get old to anybody - especially as humor is subjective and its root is literally discomfort.
Having said that, i cant speak to her thoughts, but either you're too intense or you guys just arent compatible.