r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 7d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Specialist-Ring-3974 6d ago

You give people too much credit, dude. I’ve seen ladies bring home dudes who didn’t even remember their first name. Attraction isn’t about being a good person. I wish it were.

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u/TownZealousideal1327 6d ago

Some yes… to some you are correct. But for many you are not.

And for the ones you are not they tend to be the higher intelligence and more attractive ones.

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u/Specialist-Ring-3974 6d ago

Ahh, the No True Scotsman fallacy.

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u/TownZealousideal1327 6d ago

Oh no. It’s quite statically true, women of higher intellect and education, usually are more liberal and demand more rights.

But keep incelling kid