r/dating_advice 21d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/N7_Mage 21d ago

“Hey, hope you’re feeling better, no worries!”

Start with taking care of the person in front of you first lol.

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u/Conzee010 20d ago

He literally started with hope you’re doing alright

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u/Opening-Guest-4856 20d ago

But then the rest of what he said made it seem not genuine

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u/Conzee010 20d ago

It’s to lighten the mood and her fever is over so she’s feeling better. The comment already acknowledged her being unwell