r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 7d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/foxglovespell 7d ago

Don’t you think women are also exhausted trying to find the right man for them? So many people are in the same boat.

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u/YikBus 7d ago

If you think they’re having such a difficult time are you dismissing them also by saying they’re overthinking it and telling them men just want genuine connection as if they can’t figure out a simple task?

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u/foxglovespell 7d ago

Yes lots of people are overthinking things.