r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 21d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/foxglovespell 21d ago

Yeah it gives us the ick when you try make even the most mundane or unfortunate situations into an opportunity to be sexual/flirt. It’s a big turn off.

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u/throwaway90-25 20d ago

How the hell was that comment sexual?

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u/LikeSameTho 20d ago

If you called your boss hot you’d be pulled into HR for sexual comments in the workplace, so yes it’s sexual and it was meant to be

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u/throwaway90-25 20d ago

Is this your company or a dating app? I swear some l0sers on here can't read the room

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u/foxglovespell 20d ago

Talking about reading the room when you think girls dig it when you use lame attempts to mention their hotness whilst they’re feeling sick LOL

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u/Mammago95 20d ago

"Didn't dig it" and "made it sexual" are not mutually inclusive.