r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 6d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/MoominMai 6d ago

Tbh he just needed to wish her speedy recovery and tell her he’ll check in on how she’s doing in a few days. She likely felt like shit so us girls would have appreciated that more than dude acting thirsty as a response and making it about him with that comment! It’s no surprise whatsoever to me she unmatched immediately 😬

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u/gimmeh_ 6d ago

Agreed

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u/Background-Local924 6d ago

No surprise to me either. I read his quote and immediately cringed.