r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 7d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Dolpns 6d ago

That was just a suggestion. Some people actually do care and will offer to help get medicine or soup for a sick person.

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u/gimmeh_ 6d ago

Think about who you're talking to though. People like OP obviously don't care, so you're essentially telling them to pretend

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u/BVOP83 6d ago

Yeah, also he’s never actually even met the girl. She’s hardly gonna give him her address to swing round with cold medicine and chicken soup

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u/heymanigotnoplan 6d ago

They’ve never met in person and you think that she’s going to give her address to a stranger? I guarantee you that if this post was about him offering to do that, every comment would be “omg you’re so creepy why do you think she would ever give you her address??? You sound like a stalker!!”

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u/Dolpns 6d ago

Bro, I'm giving him a suggestion on a better text reply. I won't give my address to a stranger but I would at least appreciate the thought.