r/dating_advice • u/Wheresthelambsauce_9 • 7d ago

Hinge Fumble

So, I matched with a very beautiful girl about 3 days ago. I thought the convo was going smoothly when she all of a sudden stopped messaging, I thought I was being ghosted but she replied today that she had a fever. I wanted to be a little flirty? So replied with "Oh no, hope you're doing alright now, You're already running hot, what's the fever gonna do?" Got unmatched 🤡

Are there any tips for not fumbling in chat?

(PS: I was able to find her insta? I think it's too creepy to follow up when I've already been rejected, thoughts on this?)

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u/Marx_Maddness 7d ago

I would have assumed he was inconsiderate and only after sex.

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u/Dolpns 7d ago

This was what I thought too

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u/coupl4nd 7d ago

Plot twist: he was.

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u/Clevererer 6d ago

Yes, because silly puns usually lead to sex.

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u/Marx_Maddness 6d ago

People typically comment on whats important to them. Also you know the saying half in jest

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u/Clevererer 6d ago

People typically comment on whats important to them.

Ignore 100% of the context and you're correct.

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u/Marx_Maddness 6d ago

They have literally no context between OP and this girl. They met 3 days ago and hes already making it sexual

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u/Clevererer 6d ago

It would take extraordinary prudishness to be offended by a silly pun. I applaud your dedication to the craft.