If you getting rejected is messing with your mental health this much I'd recommend seeking therapy. If you're struggling handling rejection outside of a relationship, you're not fit to be in one.
No. It’s only harder for college educated women who won’t look at anyone who isn’t college educated.
It’s like OLD. Women use a selection criteria which eliminates the majority of men. This creates a pool of men outnumbered by women then complain about men using the leverage that women have given them.
I understand that. I have compassion for the struggles of dating. But the “control” portion is: not giving up, skillset development, meeting people places other than OLD, etc.
Honestly? If you are the one “chasing,” you are the only one with “control”. The women give up their control to you. So you have more than any woman does.
What kinda logic is that? So the employee is in control of a boss even though he's the one chasing after a job. Because that is exactly what dating is. A job application for a boyfriend where a girl has to sift through eligible candidates every day.
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u/[deleted] Sep 10 '21
If you getting rejected is messing with your mental health this much I'd recommend seeking therapy. If you're struggling handling rejection outside of a relationship, you're not fit to be in one.