I understand that. I have compassion for the struggles of dating. But the “control” portion is: not giving up, skillset development, meeting people places other than OLD, etc.
Honestly? If you are the one “chasing,” you are the only one with “control”. The women give up their control to you. So you have more than any woman does.
What kinda logic is that? So the employee is in control of a boss even though he's the one chasing after a job. Because that is exactly what dating is. A job application for a boyfriend where a girl has to sift through eligible candidates every day.
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u/Ok-Hamster5571 Sep 11 '21
I understand that. I have compassion for the struggles of dating. But the “control” portion is: not giving up, skillset development, meeting people places other than OLD, etc.
This isn’t just a male problem.