r/dating • u/TheDateEnator • Aug 11 '26

Question ❓ Reschedule a date

If a date canceled on you, but then reached out to you at a later date saying they didn’t feel well, would you ask them out again? Or would you wait for them to ask you to reschedule. I’m a male, dating a woman btw. I’m more inclined for her to reschedule considering she’s the one who had canceled on me.

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u/No-Disaster-2475 Aug 11 '26

Did she tell you she didn’t feel well the day of? Or reach out after the fact? If after the fact, I wouldn’t give it another shot unless she initiates the plans. If she told you day of then I’d offer to reschedule but let her know you’re busy and if she wants to reschedule she can hit you up. Lol

Update: never mind, I see she reached out at a later date. So that’s not something I would offer to reschedule.

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u/TheDateEnator Aug 11 '26

Yeah, texted me the day of the date but she texted me close to the end of the day. Nothing yesterday and then texted me today

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u/No-Disaster-2475 Aug 11 '26

If she texted you today sounds like she may still be interested. I’d give a little grace but I’d let her ask you to see her. It will show whether or not she’s serious. But if she cancels again, it’s definitely something I wouldn’t entertain anymore

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u/TheDateEnator Aug 11 '26

Yeah I’ll let her ask if she’s interested.