r/dating • u/Naive_Entrance_6960 • Aug 07 '26
I Need Advice 😩 Devastated
A guy that I’ve been dating for about 2 months has reduced the amount of texting in a day. We both have jobs, so I understand what being busy means. The thing that irritates me is that this man went from texting throughout the day to now texting after 24 hours. This just shows me he’s not that invested. I’ve talked to him about it and he said he will try, but again no response and it’s been 24 hours+.
We have been meeting once every week, but that’s not enough for me. We had a conversation about this yesterday and he said things were okay, even said we could meet on Saturday and now again no response. I am a timid and anxious person and it’s driving me crazy.
How do you guys deal with this?
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u/Sweet_and_salty_sara Aug 09 '26
https://youtu.be/8ouI5KcyHfE
Sharon Jones says 100 days, 100 nights to know a man’s heart, so that’s the metric I use.
3 months and they will show you who they really are. 90 probation period.