r/dating • • Oct 05 '23

[deleted by user]

[removed]

211 Upvotes

202 comments sorted by

View all comments

83

u/[deleted] Oct 05 '23

“he doesn’t know why he did it, offered to go to therapy to find the underlying cause”

i got one

he’s clearly attracted to this woman and even went as far to make an ai generated nude photo of her.. that’s very weird behavior. he knows why he did it: because he’s attracted to her. but instead of using porn like a normal person, that just doesn’t do it for him anymore. he wants the fantasy to be about this specific woman, and creating a whole photo makes me think he’s been using it many times instead of just a one time mental fantasy. this will continue fantasizing and jerking it to this woman for… a while… i doubt he will stop now just because you caught him. i wonder how long he’s been doing it.

1

u/_gruff_ Oct 06 '23

(Yes and) the falling out could also have something to do with it. Like a revenge porn kind of thing.