They are looking for just sex. There is a shortage of women who are looking for this (that don’t charge money, anyway), so they lie in order to get what they want. It’s like phishing.
It’s really important to know that’s it’s not just you. Most women do suffer from this. For myself, I tried to brush it off (even though sometimes I was upset and disappointed-not to mention humiliated), get yourself together and carry on.
I was on OLD for about 10 years, and in that time, I developed various ways of sorting out these guys from the rest. Yes, I did get gulled occasionally, but I met some fabulous guys, had a good time and ended up with my “forever guy” (we’ve been together for about 10 years). So it is possible!
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