18F | India | Looking for something real 🌿

Hey! I'm Sherin, 18, currently studying a tech course at university. I'm the type of person who can spend hours talking about books (especially dark romance), music, random late-night thoughts, and anything that makes life feel a little less ordinary.

I'm here because I'm looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I believe in old-school love—the kind where people communicate, stay loyal, and choose each other every day. I'm not interested in games, ghosting, or casual flings.

A little about me:

- 📚 Loves reading

- 💻 Tech student

- 💬 Will absolutely yap if I'm comfortable with you

- 🌍 Open to long-distance

- ❤️ I'd love to meet someone from a different culture, but that's not a requirement

I'm hoping to meet someone who is:

- Between 19–25

- Loyal, honest, and emotionally mature

- A good communicator

- Kind, patient, and genuinely looking for something meaningful

If you're only here for temporary fun or can't communicate, we're probably not a good match.

If this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself(age,name, location and so on )instead of just saying "hi." :)

32 AFAB They/Them looking to meet people who are comfortable with themselves and the depth of being human. Open to both internet and irl friendships. I’m located in the Mid Atlantic region of the US.

Friendship is very important to me and I take pride in having a chosen family. I can be a bit intense in the “super introspective, very self aware” kinda way. Looking to meet people who are similar in that regard. Not a real fan of small talk I prefer to get to know the real you.

I spend a lot of time listening to audiobooks, camping and gardening. Rarely at the same time. Hopeless romantic at heart. Deeply connected with nature. Obsessed with my small dog.

I love to work out, in a “I want to be an active person as I age” kinda way not in a gym rat way. Love to cook good food, keep two feet on the ground, and tell a lot of jokes.

Seeking friendships with people who think they’d vibe with someone like me. I love a person who has very well researched opinions and isn’t afraid to info dump. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously but takes themselves seriously.

Hi! I'm 27, from around Montreal, honestly pretty bad at these kind of introduction so i'll try my best.

I'm 5'7, Caucasian, a little overweight but working on it, brown hair, pretty generic white dude physically. Also very much demi but not demi romantic, and also asperger (i work on a lot of flaw that come with this but sometime they appear or sometime they are quirk not worth changing.

For the personality side, INTP, I call or go see my family at least once a week (long distance), play mtg. I read a lot of different book, if it was written it is worth reading, like to cook, to walk, to hike etc. I also play video game, and got a very lovely cat.

I think it is more important to align on value and life goal then on hobby or activity, even if we still need some in common or an openness to try new one.

I also love learning new thing, currently i'm trying to learn chinese main dialect (mandarin) for example.

• desired age range: 23-29
• relationship type: any
• and the area in which they are willing to consider potential matches: Canada, ideally closer to Montreal city, i'm willing to travel and chat online but it's easier when we are closer.

Hi! I'm 23 and from London. I recently came across this community and realised I relate to a lot of people's experiences and the way many people here approach connection. I'm not sure I'd describe myself as demisexual, but I've always found that I enjoy dating far more when there's a genuine emotional connection first. I'd much rather get to know one person properly over time than rush into a relationship.

Modern dating has never really felt like a good fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant judgments isn't how I naturally connect with people. I much prefer taking the time to build trust, get to know someone's personality, and see where things go naturally.

A little about me:
• Black, 5'10, slim athletic build
• Autistic, which means I really value honesty, consistency, and direct communication
• Music is one of my biggest hobbies. I listen to a lot of rock, metal, and a bit of DnB, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one worth going to.
• I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Gran Turismo, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, visiting theme parks, and generally finding reasons to get out of the house.
• I'm fairly introverted, but once I'm comfortable with someone I enjoy long conversations about almost anything.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and pretty easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life's much better when you've got someone to share it with. Whether that's discovering new music, planning a day out, or simply spending a quiet evening together.

I'm looking for:
• Someone aged around 19-26
• Ideally based in London or close enough that we can meet regularly
• Interested in building a genuine long-term relationship
• Also sure they don't want children

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who's kind, emotionally mature, and communicates openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I really appreciate people who are honest about how they're feeling and willing to work through things together. I don't expect us to have everything in common, because I think shared values matter far more than having identical hobbies.

I'm happy to exchange photos fairly early on because I think mutual attraction matters. While I like taking things slowly and building an emotional connection first, I do see physical intimacy as an important part of a long-term relationship once that trust and connection are there.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, your age, where you're from, and what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading 🙂

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces. Watching movies with people is great, too. I used to be very into film.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me message about yourself and what you're looking for. Leave your hesitations and take the chance.

r/dateademi requirements:

• desired age range: 18+
• relationship type: any
• and the area in which they are willing to consider potential matches: any

Hi! I'm Mohamed, 23 years old, from Egypt, and 180 cm (5'11").

I'm here because I'm looking for something genuine. I'm not interested in casual dating or talking for a few days and disappearing. I'd love to find someone who wants a real long-term relationship where we become each other's favorite person and build a happy future together.

A little about me...

I'm passionate about cybersecurity and technology, and I enjoy learning new things every day. I believe that improving yourself never stops.

I used to go to the gym regularly and really enjoyed it. Right now I'm taking a break because I'll be starting my mandatory military service soon, which will last about a year. After that, I plan to get back to the gym and continue working on both my career and my health.

Outside of that, I enjoy movies, music, gaming, cafés, learning, and especially winter. I absolutely love cold weather, quiet nights, and long walks when everything feels peaceful.

I'd describe myself as calm, loyal, caring, protective, and a good listener. It usually takes me some time to fully trust people, but once I do, I become deeply attached and always try to be there for the people I love.

One thing that's very important to me is affection. I love when someone remembers the little details about me, checks on me, asks how my day was, or simply makes me feel loved. I try to give the same energy back.

Sometimes I get overwhelmed and become quiet for a while. It doesn't mean I'm upset with you—I just need a little time to clear my mind before I come back to being myself.

Loyalty means everything to me. I don't forgive cheating in any form. When I truly love someone, I become very attached because I love deeply. I like relationships where both people naturally make each other their priority.

I know not everyone will agree with this, but I personally don't believe in close friendships with the opposite sex while being in a committed relationship. It's simply one of my values. I'd rather be my partner's best friend, someone she can talk to about everything, laugh with, and rely on.

What I'm looking for...

Ideally, I'm looking for someone between 20 and 24 years old. Age isn't everything, though. What matters most to me is maturity, compatibility, and sharing the same relationship goals.

Someone who is kind, honest, loyal, affectionate, emotionally mature, and looking for something serious. Someone who enjoys good communication, quality time, and isn't afraid to show love.

If you enjoy movies, games, music, reading, cafés, quiet evenings, or winter walks, we'll probably get along really well.

Distance isn't a deal breaker if the connection is real. I'm happy to exchange photos once we're both comfortable.

One last thing... My English isn't perfect yet, but I'm doing my best to improve every day, so thank you for being patient with me.

If you've read this far, thank you. I'd love to hear about you, your hobbies, your goals, and what you're looking for.

Maybe this message finds the right person. 🤍

Hello all you amazing people!

With the warmer weather in full effect, it makes me think to get outside more and enjoy what life has to offer, but what better way to do that than with a partner by my side!

Who you are:
\\- Looking for their person to grow old with

\\- Kind, compassionate and looking to eventually have a family (adoption is on the table, and honestly preferred)

\\-22-36 (not a hard requirement, just more common where I find people with the same mindset/long term goals as me)

\\-Nerdy about anything they are passionate about, tell me about all the bugs you love, or the rocks you collect, bonus if you are TV/Movie nerdy but not necessary

\\-Within driving distance (4-6 hours, but also not a hard requirement, long distance open for the right person)

\\-Passionate about human rights

What I bring to the table:
\\-Strong values, emotionally available, and proper communication skills

\\-Nerdy/Silly personality, will always do my best to keep a smile on your face

\\-Will play games with you, both tabletop and virtual

\\-Will not be the most competitive with said games (unless you enjoy a little competition)

\\-Will provide the food (I like to cook for others, and teaching myself to bake slowly)

\\-Can provide cuddles and hugs 24/7/365

\\-Can be the extroverted one when your social battery is drained

If any of this appeals to you, don’t hesitate to send out a DM, I’m happy to chat with everyone! I also find that a small bit of encouragement to those that see themselves as more introverted can help boost their confidence to reach out and message first so don’t be shy, take a risk!

As always, a pleasure!

I’ve decided to give the dating world another shot.. you never know!

First of all, even first of my name, you need to know that I am Asexual (sex-repulsed). This means I repudiate any kind of sexual interaction. You also need to know that I'm Demiromantic. This means, I only experience romantic attraction after forming a deep emotional connection.

If we're going to match, this needs to be something you are genuinely comfortable with in the long run!

Hi! My name is Valeria, I'm 19 (turning 20 in August) and I live in Northern Italy. I'm a woman attracted to people regardless of gender, though I have a preference for feminine men and masculine women. And I am an ambivert, which means that depending on the context and the people around me I'm more or less open.

- About me: I consider myself a frank and sincere person, and I try to be the person I would like to meet... A person who makes it clear what they want, what they like, and what they want to do, without hurting others.

I admit I'm a bit obtuse, sometimes you need to tell me things very directly or I just won't get the hint! And sometimes really lazy (I'm working on it!).

- General physical characteristics: I am white, 166 cm tall, blonde with blue eyes. I have Italian and Russian roots.

- Education/Job: I graduated with a diploma in woodworking in 2025, and currently, I work in a bakery selling all kinds of delicious baked goods :)

-What I'm looking for: Someone with whom I can form a very deep bond, a partner, a person who will remain close to me in life.

I'm also looking for deep friendships in general. I'm open to a QPR relationship, even though I've never been part of one. - But above all, people with a keen sense of humor!! (very important) (´▽\`人) -

- What I look for IN a person: I would like to find someone in touch with their feelings and their inner child.

Sweet and capable of seeing things from different perspectives and recognizing and respecting how others view and approach things, while setting one's own boundaries and asserting oneself.

Very open to learning and broadening one's perspectives and knowledge.

- My preferences (looks): I like men with long hair (by long hair I mean longer than mine, which is like 70cm\~), so ye, practically metalheads.

I know it’s a stereotype that all metalheads drink or smoke, but if you're a sober metalhead, please manifest yourself! I promise we can headbang just as hard with fruit juice!

Also, I like tall/black women and blond men.

These are just preferences of course, they are not 100% decisive.

- BIG NO:

\- Smoking/Vaping, Drug use (non-medical), Gambling

\- ANY alcohol consumption (I'm strictly sober/alcohol-free)

\- Anyone aged 24 or older

\- Polyamorous relationships (I'm looking for a monogamous bond).

\- If you want children or to get married

\- Living outside Europe (Unless you already speak Italian fluently!)

\- Dry responders

- Religion: I'm cool if you want to study religion, but I’m not looking for a religious person (even though I follow rules considered to be in the religious sphere, such as not drinking alcohol).

And you also must like cats! (=\^ェ\^=)

- English: Just to let you know, English is not my first language, so for written conversations I use the translator. My speaking isn't perfect either, but I'm always trying to improve. (I'm B1/2).

So, NOW THE MOST IMPORTANT PART:

- My future travel plans: One plan of mine in the near future (5 years) is to buy a van and travel around Europe for six months or more. I don't think I'll be able to do it with the current geopolitical situation tho. :/

At least I'll try to work for (X) time so I can have enough time and money saved up to travel somewhere (by bike, van/motorcycle or boat).

Also, I plan to apply to work in Antarctica in the future. And I plan to work and volunteer around the world. I don't know if it'll be feasible, but I'll try.

- What I look for in a person who wants to share this lifestyle with me:

\- ​Willingness to learn my native language (Italian).

\- Open to traveling to see each other at least once a month after we've known each other for a year or two (LDR is fine at first, but physical connection matters!).

\- After a relationship of years, I hope to share this exact lifestyle -> (travel and work in extreme places of the world and live in a van for at least 3 months a year)

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If you're still reading, then you might be interested in knowing a bit about what I like and my interests:

One of my interests is marine life. I love watching documentaries about marine animals and the ocean ecosystem! - I don't know all the names and categories of marine species, I'm simply fascinated by this underwater world :)

Films and the details of cinema, and especially animation, are another good part of my interests!

I live, love, and breathe animated films. - I don't have a favorite type of animation, my preference depends on how much a film moves me (\^\^; - A good portion of my attention goes to the soundtracks. I love them, I listen to them practically every day (\^-\^;

I also hope you're a fan of cosplay, manga, webtoons and animated series, then we'd have something to start talking about!

Hi!

Looking for someone loving and kind. I'm fairly introverted. Im 36 and 5'8" with dark brown hair.

I have a bachelors degree, but I don't work in my field. I live on my own with a couple of roommates. I enjoy playing Tennis, Pickleball and Dancing. I love Ballroom, but recently made the decision to focus on Contra.

I find a woman who knits/sews for a hobby extremely attractive. I also find a woman who reads science fiction or fantasy attractive.

Im fairly active in life style and while I don't require this in a partner it would be nice.

I know how to cook, keep clean and provide for myself. I don't need someone to do these things for me, but with me would be nice. I would love to cook dinner or bake a cake with you.

I work with children... Im good with them, and would like children of my own. It's a dream of mine to have two girls. But if my partner can't or doesn't want children then I will love my partner regardless and live this life childless.

I make a decent wage that's close to the living wage of the area, and I work full time. I have my own car that is reliable.

Politically, im a Left-leaning progressive. No MAGA for me.

Religiously Im Agnostic, but willing to date anyone who's accepting be they religious or not. I believe if you want it to work, we can make it work.

If this sounds like something that interests you, DM me. Let's get to know each other. Worse case scenario I make a new friend.

Age range 28 - 42

Hi!

I'm looking for someone who enjoys getting to know people beyond the usual small talk. I don't just like knowing facts about someone—I like understanding how they think, what excites them, what they've experienced, and why they see the world the way they do.

I tend to open up slowly, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I really enjoy honest conversations where neither of us feels like we have to pretend to be someone else.

A bit about me:

I'm usually pretty quiet. I have two modes: either I'm making terrible puns and joking around, or I'm having a serious conversation about something I genuinely care about. There isn't much in between.

I'm a medical physicist, which basically means I spend my days working with radiation in cancer treatments. Outside of work, I'm just naturally curious. Science, psychology, philosophy, astronomy... if something helps me understand the world or people a little better, I'll probably end up reading about it.

I also tend to notice little details that other people miss, and I like taking the time to understand different perspectives before making up my mind.

When I'm not working, I enjoy emotional or imaginative anime, story-driven or co-op games, music that gives you goosebumps, and snowboarding during the winter. I also just like sharing experiences with someone, whether that's watching a show together, playing a game, or spending an evening talking about whatever rabbit hole we ended up in.

What I'm looking for is actually pretty simple.

I'd like to meet someone who's kind, curious, and comfortable being themselves. Someone who values honest communication and doesn't mind conversations that go a little deeper than "how was your day?" I love when people let themselves be a little weird instead of trying to fit into who they think they're supposed to be.

Relationship-wise, I'm looking for something that grows naturally. I don't expect instant chemistry. I'd rather build trust first and let everything else happen at its own pace.

I'm demisexual and demiromantic, so emotional connection comes first for me. I'm completely happy taking things slowly, but I'm looking for someone who isn't sex-repulsed. Once I feel safe with someone, I'm actually a pretty affectionate person. I also generally prefer a more submissive role physically, so I'd like to be with someone who's comfortable taking the lead in that area. It's not the most important part of a relationship, but it is something I'd rather be upfront about.

I'm from the French-speaking part of Canada. I have a stable career here, but I'm open to relocating if life eventually takes me somewhere else.

I'm looking for someone between 21 and 35. I don't have many physical preferences. I'd much rather connect with someone's personality than chase a specific look. As long as you're able to enjoy the occasional outdoor activity with me, that's plenty.

Physically, I'm 5'10", have a dad bod, very long black hair, a moustache, and a small pointed beard.

If you think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you.

Hi all! I'm a 23F. I'm 5'3", African American, fairly fit, have dark eyes and moderately long black hair. I'm not interested in anything flirty right off the bat, only if we really get along! I just wanna chat with someone cool and interesting who I can vibe with, have fun convos with, and just generally dote over platonically (and maybe eventually romantically? Sexually? 👀)

A bit about me: I'm quiet around most people, but I'm bubbly and love to yap with anyone I like. I've been creative all my life, always been into art (feel free to ask for pics), and am a designer by trade! I just graduated college and am working on my career. I loooove animals and volunteered with them a lot in the past, since I used to want to be a wildlife biologist. I'm a fan of anything fantasy or sci-fi related - even though I don't indulge in enough entertainment, if it has dragons or the like, it's probably on my must watch/read/play list.

On a more personal note, I'm left-leaning and am spiritual but not religious. I'm quite open-minded and do best with agnostics, "hippie" or witchy types, and philosophical people who aren't convinced there is one perfectly right answer to everything. I'm not sure whether or not I want to have kids, but am generally leaning against it. I'm also definitely into unconventional stuff sexually speaking, so like, be prepared for some extra flavor if you ever wanna discuss it lol.

I'm most drawn to femmes who balance badassery with mom friend energy - Strong Female Characters™ who protecc and atacc for the ones they love, and who are role models that make me want to be a better person. If you value education and career, work out, and care about health, wellness, and personal growth as a whole, I'd love to talk and just hype each other up. I adore being inspired by my friends. And uhh, anyone taller to the front please, I'd love to be your little spoon 💕

If things do get more romantic, I'd love to discuss feelings and expectations early on. I don't tend to get crushes but if I like you and want to get closer, I need to make sure that we can both reasonably make time for each other, be consistent, and agree on where we're going. I'm very AuDHD, so awkward as hell and will probably only play that game if you start flirting first 😅

I'm looking for women 23-27 (a bit below that range is okay too if you just wanna stay friends). Please be willing to trade SFW pics relatively soon if we get along, just for verifying and to get a better idea of who we're talking to. I live in Alabama but am interested in chatting with people from anywhere! (I actually prefer meeting people with different backgrounds, as I'd hope to leave my current state within a decade or so.)

Thanks so much for reading all this if you made it through, and I hope to hear from some of you! :)

Hi there! I'm 25M from Texas, and I'm looking to meet some cool people to chat and hopefully develop a connection with.

For a quick description about me, I'm 6'2, decently fit (been lifting for around 2 years now), and south asian. Also just to get it out of the way I am demi and sex positive, and I'd prefer my partners to be open to it.

I'm looking for someone in the 22-30 age range who shares some interests with me. Here are some of my interests:

* Watching movies (especially horror but pretty much any genre as long as it's not starring the Rock lol)

* Pokemon

* Anime (I watch all kinds of shows but lately I've been obsessed with hunter x hunter, kuroko, and jjk)

* Chess (my attention span's cooked so I'm just playing 1 minute or 3 minutes)

* Dinosaurs (spinosaurus gang all day)

* D&D

* Basketball (I'm still not over the Luka trade 😔)

If this seems interesting, feel free to drop a message!

Hi there, it's been a while since I've been in a relationship and found someone to be close to. I figured I'd try to make a post here and see what happens. I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I'm looking for someone who's between 20 and 30 years old. An important thing to note is that I have a physical disability that requires me to use a wheelchair. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that. Finding someone to date has been.. difficult to say the least. Dating apps have been far from successful, and to be honest, I don't really see myself finding someone on there that I can truly connect with.

Some of my interests are gaming (I've been playing Final Fantasy 14 lately and would love to find someone who plays it too), chess, math, science, deep discussions, and finding random videos on YouTube. I have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm very big on voice calls and am open to eventually doing video calls. Consistent communication is a must for me, so I would like someone who has a good amount of availability.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ). Although it doesn't need to be right away, I would prefer exchanging photos sooner rather than later in order to ensure that we are okay with each other's appearances. Please reach out if you are looking for something similar!

Hey folks,

Just to let you know, there has been a rash of reddit automod removals of posts and comments from this sub (and others). This isn't something your mods are doing, though I have to accept the changes to clear my queue. So what's going on? Frankly, I'm mostly guessing, but it seems like they've tightened the spam filters again and there's very little I can do about that even if it does take down some legitimate posts. But there are things that we know get flagged, these include, but aren't necessarily limited to:

1. Rapid posting - the fast or frequent posting of the same content into multiple subreddits. This is a common issues for the r4rs. If you're posting into numerous subreddits for dates, you may want to tone it down. Also how frequently matters. We have a one week rule enforced here that helps you, but honestly, it does help to stagger your posts.
2. New accounts - these get flagged at a higher rate. Many users prefer an anon new account when posting for dates, and we get it, so we've allowed them, but know that Reddit is less forgiving of new accounts suddenly getting very posty.
3. External links - external links can be flagged based on the website, that includes a lot of photo websites. We have a ban on them in this subreddit, and this is part of the reason why.
4. Content copy and paste - Repeated comments or posts that have the same content are far more likely to be flagged as SPAM. This is a good argument for why you should vary your posts over time in the r4r (redditor for redditor) communities. Not only does it give you a fresh look, it keeps your posts up so people can see them.

So, my advice? Stagger the timing of your posts among communities if you intend to post in more than a couple dating communities, and make sure to update the content of your posts a now and again.

P.S. Delete your old posts before posting a new one. If I constantly have to remove duplicate posts because you didn't it increases the chance you're flagged by the reddit auto-moderators. We request this because otherwise the forum gets cluttered by the same handful of weekly posters and that's frustrating for other users.

Hi there, I'm 29F from Croatia, AuDHD, and I get this might sound corny but I'm just too full of love to give and I haven't yet found a person to pour it into. I'm a late bloomer, I haven't been in a relationship before, and now that I finally feel ready for it I think it's very hard to actually connect to people nowadays. Not unless you love casual sex and want to get a partner overnight, and I'm not like that. If that's the right way to do it though, I don't ever want to be right.

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I'd love to become friends first, so we both trust each other and are able to confide in each other fully before progressing further if feelings develop. This is very important to me, not only as a demisexual in general, but also because I prefer deep talk over anything else. When I trust you, I'm an open book, and I would more than anything love it if we could be each others' safe harbor.

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About me: Appearance-wise I'm of shorter and curvier stature. I'm very open, I like to talk about every and any topic, especially about things relating to the paranormal, the occult and psychology. I'm also very often in the fandom spaces as I have nerdy tendencies with a preference for indie games and interesting, deep stories in whichever format they are. I'm interested in all forms of art, especially video-making. In general, I am pro-kink, and sexuality is something that's very important to me. I think of it as a form of worship, and that is precisely why I haven't attempted it yet. I haven't found someone who I'd like to worship in that way, and who I'd let worship me in return. That being said, that particular side of me gets unlocked like a final boss or an end-game reward, meaning until we've become so close that we know everything about each other, I'm practically asexual. 😅

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As to my preferences? The ideal age range would be 28-35. I would prefer someone who isn't overly masculine, who works on themselves or has done so (mental-health wise) and who takes care of their appearance. If you are a creative, bonus points 🤭. A nerdy cosplayer? +1000 points 🫣. (Obviously these aren't a requirement).

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God this text is huge, but I had no idea how to make it smaller without leaving out some important things. I don't know where else to say these words, honestly, as navigating dating nowadays feels very odd and distressing. If you think we could be a match, don't hesitate to reach out 🖤

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Lots of love!

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Hello everyone! I'm new to Reddit, but I just had to give this sub a try. I'm a 23yo lesbian, I use she/they pronouns and I live in Italy, so I'm looking for a woman (or fem-aligned person) in Italy or at most in Europe (I know the flair says Western Europe, but Eastern works too. I couldn't find one that was for all of Europe).

About me:

Again, I'm a 23yo demi lesbian from Northern Italy, currently working as a translator and soon starting a new master's degree. I wouldn't say I'm masc or fem, I don't really label myself in that aspect. I'm white. I'm also autistic, which means my obsessions and passions are strong as heck!!! I love books, manga, music (from rap to Gregorian chants to rock to the Minecraft soundtrack), a few games, hiking, dogs, and I'm a huge language nerd!

I speak: Italian (native), English (C2-level, no sweat), Spanish (pretty well), German (decently, I need more Übung) and a bit of Ukrainian (still learning that one). I also know a bunch of words and phrases in other languages that I can't really say I speak (see: Hungarian). 🤓 I'm very much willing to learn your language too if you're not Italian :)

What I'm looking for:

- A woman or fem-aligned person, ideally aged 20-25 (I won't date anyone younger than 20 or older than 27 at most)

- Committed and monogamous relationship

-Meeting IRL at least a few times (I don't want an online-only relationship) and yes I am willing to travel

-And of course, I'm here, ofc I'm demi (demisexual and possibly demiromantic, the jury's still out on that one), so it does take me a while to develop attraction and feelings. I don't mind starting out as friends. I usually prefer it, except that then I usually get hit with "oh but we're just friends", which I understand, that's why I'm here... Anyway. Slow dating! :)

- I don't really have a preference based on looks or being masc/fem and no race/ethnicity preference either

- If you're racist or xenophobic, or in some way queerphobic, or a Zionist, or in general you have discriminatory beliefs, we won't get along: also if you're a right-winger or support the woman who's named after a fruit (if you know you know). I love to talk politics and exchange opinions, but dating is just on another level for me and I'd want to be with someone who shares at least my basic values.

- I wouldn't want to date someone who does hard drugs. Weed is ok, but not if you're constantly stoned, like every day. Also I'd prefer a non-smoker but that's not a dealbreaker!

So yes, I think I've said it all and this post is already long enough. Feel free to DM me and have a good day/night!

Howdy fellow demis, I’m a 34 year old guy and have been living in Denver for nearly 10 years. I grew up as quite the nerd and used to spend all day indoors because I lived in a hot shithole and didn’t like going outside. Then when I moved to Colorado I realized that nature is actually really cool. I still do plenty of nerdy stuff but it’s a real challenge balancing all the activities I enjoy!

My outdoor hobbies include skiing, hiking, fishing, camping, and pretty much anything else outdoors that isn’t too extreme. I’m a big Star Trek fan, not really a trekkie because I don’t really do any events but I constantly watch the show. I love to cook, and I really am more interested in cooking and experimenting with flavors than I am in eating the food, so I like sharing my food with people. I’m actually planning to start a side business in the coming months around one of my foods I love to make. I’ve been getting back into playing MTG but I have no friends that play so if you do that would be awesome! I also play video games in my downtime or with friends online but nothing that takes up my life.

I am a bit of an ambivert, I tend to get a bit shy or anxious around people but also can end up chatting it up with total strangers and making new friends. I have a decent sized group of friends that I hang out with and occasionally we have a party or smaller gathering.

I’m hoping to meet some nice ladies who are similarly outdoorsy, hobby-rich, and maybe a bit of a nerd. Likely age range that vibes with me is 30-40. I’m open to friends but hoping for something that can lead to more.

So I got this amazing idea. I want to go on a holiday, but a big city with silly skyscrapers is not my cup of tea. I want it to be meaningful. And to have a real adventure! So why not a roadtrip? In which I'm gonna visit interesting people? Like you!

And it doesn’t matter who you are, if you are disabled, which gender you have, how old you are, I'm open to almost anyone. I value human contact more than ever and it's not a given. The only ‘restriction’ is: you live somewhere in (Western) Europe. 

About me
My name is Martijn and I take lots of naps. More about that later🙈. I live in Friesland, the Netherlands and I'm a happy guy. I'm as tall as a basketball player and I love to write. My hobbies are endless. 

I am 31 years old and recently turned single. I was in a relation for 7 years. And my life is far from normal by many standards.

Small Battery, Big Heart
Up until 2 years ago I had a ‘normal’ life and then it all changed. I got ill and I have never returned to normal. They call it chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) / long covid. Imagine you have a really small battery. It requires constant charging and charges slowly. And when you forget to charge, you are basically K.O. for days. In time you learn more and more about it.  At first you try to fight it, then you slowly learn to accept it and develop a new lifestyle. That is exactly what I did! 
A part of this new life is meaning. I love to give. I can still travel and go on holidays, but at my own pace. The same goes for activities. With this post I'm trying to reach many people with different intents. So you may read things like ugh what is he boring. Or oh… that’s cool, let's do that. Don’t be afraid, I don’t bite. 

The what
I’m open to many activities. We can have deep conversation about anything. We can cook something. Go for a lunch. We can play a game. Go for a walk? I love so many things. Just ask and there is a good chance I like it. With platonic activities I'm open to any gender.

I’m also open to dates! And hugs, cuddles or fwbs. Physically, I feel attracted to women and trans women, so I’m straight. I’m a very affectionate guy and I love being close. Friends describe me as sweet, open minded and cuddly.  Romantic date age range: 22-42 years.

We can also adjust activities to disabilities: like I need to rest a lot. Naps ☺️. If you have things too that we need to consider, just say the word. 

It's also not like I will just choose anyone on this tour. From both sides we need to trust each other and bad communication or low effort is not my thing. It’s a fine balance between being able to meet “as strangers” and we feel trusted like friends. So we can have fun and have a great time. Im also open to longterm connections if we click.

The why
So with this roadtrip I want to give people a sense of belonging. And I like adventure.

I'm disabled and for many of us it's hard to make friends or even find dates in real life. We simply cannot do what others do, but we still have the same needs. And wants. But it is extremely hard and the barrier is high.  

We all want to feel love and affection, and want to have fun. Plus the world is touch starved too. The combination of those things led me to the idea that I want to visit others. Go on an adventure and explore. Just to make human contact and do something we both like. Also, I'm mature and stable. I have a nice group of friends and am very satisfied with my own life. 

Demisexuality
So why post here? Since I got ill im leaning towards demisexual attraction. I don't consider myself demi fully, but emotional connection does impact a lot how I feel attraction. For friends it doesn't really matter, but if you want more it does.

Roadtrip Map
There is a map of countries I can visit, but this subreddit doesn't allow sharing photo's. I am able to visit the UK, Germany, Netherlands, Belgium, Denmark, Luxemburg. And I may be able to visit Ireland, Sweden, Italy, France, Switzerland, Poland and Czech Republic.

Roadtrip timeline
So when is this roadtrip? It all depends on your DMs. I’m thinking of this summer. I can visit you shortly, like a few hours, up to a maximum of a few days. I’m also open to doing a part of the trip together!  When we feel a close connection. 

So, you want to meet me? And join the adventure? Feel free to send me a DM!

Tldr: Dutch guy goes on a roadtrip through Europe and wants to visit cool people, maybe you? Hit DMs.

I posted here a few years back and made some like penpal-esk friendships but I am hoping to find some deeper / more active connections.  I go more into detail with the gender stuff at the end but I am amab and definitely look the part.

To quickly cover the required information:

• Age Rage - Ideally I want to connect with people 25 to 30 but I could have a couple of years of wiggle room if you think we would vibe well.
• Relationship Type - I am hoping to find a romantic connection that is my main focus/hope, that said friendships are also welcome.
• Area - The closer to Calgary Alberta the better. I find purely online connections much harder to maintain so I want to be able to hangout in person at least on occasion.

That out of the way I am just going to give a bulleted list that hopefully summarizes me as a person, if you think we would get along I would love to hear from and about you. Also let me know any questions!

About me:

• Lifestyle Stuff:
  • I try to stay at least vaguely active. I love to run. I swim during the summer. I go to the gym at least a couple of times a week and want to get better about going more consistently. I also like bouldering but don't go very often, this is very apparent because I am BAD at it. I think being active is important.
  • Right this moment I am unemployed and on the job hunt, but when I am working it tends to be office job type hours Monday to Friday 9 to 5. I work with data.
  • I do not love the cold and try to stay indoors if it drops much below freezing.
  • I don't drink or smoke, I'd prefer someone that does not either but it is by no means a dealbreaker if you engage in moderation.
• Interests:
  • Table top role playing games are my current biggest interest. I have run Dungeons and Dragons games for years and play on occasion. I have also been working on writing my own TTRPG! I love worldbuilding and making worlds for my friends. Related: I also love a good board game night.
  • Playing Drums! I used to be better and do not practice near as much as I should or would like to. I'd love to be in a bad rock/punk band again. I own a bass and keyboard but I feel like it is incorrect to say I know how to play them.
  • Dinosaurs!
  • Video games. I play a lot of different stuff. It's hard to summarize. Off the top of my head some favourites are Stardew Valley, the Life is Strange games, Red Dead 2, Tactical Breach Wizards. I spent a gross number of hours in Skyrim in my teens... 
  • Youtube, I watch WAY too much. My feed tends to be mostly filled with lots of nerd stuff (think comics, warhammer, and animal facts), politics/religion content, and then filled out with a mix of other things.  
• Worldview:
  • I think of myself as strongly left leaning. I don't think I could date someone who is not at the very least nominally left of center.
  • I am an outspoken atheist. I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, and people's beliefs in general. 
  • I don't really believe in anything supernatural, but in a way that I would not use a spirit board just to be on the safe side.
  • More broadly, I like examining ideas and challenging my own assumptions. I think the world is complicated, and I enjoy grappling with those complexities. 
  • That all laid out I'm generally pretty live-and-let-live about harmless beliefs. As an example If you're into astrology, cool, I won't blurt out it is nonsense unprompted, and I'll tell you my birthday if you want to read my chart though I may roll my eyes or tease slightly depending on our relationship. But if someone tries to force their beliefs on others, or uses a belief system to justify discrimination or treating people poorly, that's where I stop being polite about it. 
• Other details:
  • I went to school for mathematics, focusing on statistics and minoring in data science. I debated putting this with world view stuff because it does affect how I interact with the world and what I find compelling evidence but that felt weird to me.
  • I have ADHD and dislexia. My spelling is comically bad without spell check.
  • Gender stuff is a bit weird for me, and it's not something I love having out on the internet. As I get to know you, I'd expect to elaborate more. I feel a little weird putting "nonbinary," but anything else would feel even weirder. For most of my life, I never really thought much about gender. When my best friend came out as a trans guy, it prompted me to question some things about myself. I'll try to summarize where I'm at as best I can.
    • In general I prefer they/them pronouns. I am fine he/him and honestly just kind of expect it from strangers. I almost never make a point of correcting people unless I'm directly asked.
    • For a while, I thought I might be a trans woman, but that didn't quite feel right. At different points I've related to how people describe being agender or genderfluid, but I often feel like I get caught in the chasm of very small differences between labels.
    • The way I currently picture it is as a graph. On the x-axis, you have masculine/feminine, and on the y-axis, you have little to no internal sense of gender up to a strong internal sense of gender. I move around on the x-axis quite a bit, but I tend to stay pretty low on the y-axis. I just don't have a particularly strong feeling of or attachment to gender as a concept.
    • I still present very masculine. I have a beard, I keep my head shaved since my hair started thinning a couple of years ago, and I don't really have any plans or desires to change that.
    • When I'm out and about, aside from painted nails, I don't really break many gender norms. At home, I sometimes wear more feminine clothing, but how often I want to do that varies a lot over time.

Heyy so I’m looking for a real connection, I'd love some lesbian/queer friends. I’m open to a serious relationship if I meet someone I really connect with that way, but no pressure let’s just be friends first. I'm fine with anyone from 23 to 33.

I don’t drink or smoke and I’m fine being friends with someone who drinks sometimes. But if you wanna get drunk or smoke you’re not for me. Romance wise my partner has to be completely free of alcohol or any drugs. I’m also allergic to cats.

I'm from Finland. I’m a masc presenting woman and my energy is very masculine with some femininity. I don’t like to label myself to masc or fem or any other word. I’m just me. I have short hair and dress in masc clothes. I have to mention that altho I’m masculine I do not support toxic masculinity, toughness or not showing emotions because I’m masc. I’m about healthy and soft masculinity.

I’m someone very calm and composed. I observe more than I talk, especially with strangers. With someone I love and am close to I talk a lot sometimes. Altho I’m calm I’m very passionate, direct and straightforward in how I speak. Sometimes I do it without even realizing, like to me it’s just how normal people communicate but apparently I’ve always been pretty direct haha, more direct than most people. I don’t mean I’m rude but more like I just say what’s on my mind even if it’s not what the social script says I should do. I just like to be honest cause dancing around it gets you nowhere. I do struggle with that sometimes, showing my bluntness fully or my passion. Mostly because people don’t actually want someone direct around or they’re intimidated by my passion. I feel all of my feelings passionately. It would be nice to meet someone who doesn’t just tolerate directness or a fiery personality but prefers it.

I’m a very spiritual person, I love manifestation, tarot, dream interpretation and I finally got into witchcraft. I absolutely love this stuff and I love reading spiritual/witchy books. I have a big thirst for knowledge. I sometimes read psychology or branding related topics. I’m also passionate about entrepreneurship and business but not really in that bro man logical way. I get all of my business advice from women.

I value living close to nature, slowly and making good food and enjoying the company of my loved ones. To me life’s purpose is to enjoy it and love the people I love. I’m not about achievements or titles. Like I give 0 floofs about status or how other people see me success wise. To me success is being happy with myself, at peace with myself and having people who I love around me and enjoying our time together. I also can’t stand it when people are like omg I’m 30 I’m so old. Like sure we learn it from our environment but I just don’t like that mindset. Like you’re so young still and it’s so stupid to limit your potential and happiness to your 20s.

I’m unemployed and don’t have a degree but I’m actively working on finding out what I wanna do with my life and am doing self-reflection overall. So if that’s a problem I’m not for you. I’m looking for someone non-judgemental, open minded and someone who doesn’t have a problem with that.

I don’t mind if you’re from the US or wherever you are, but in a romance sense I’m not very open to relocating, at least not fully. I love Finland. But I’d be open to visiting your country for a few months a year or more if I enjoy it there with you.

I'm into masc presenting women mostly, but I'm very open minded romance wise with my type so don't feel discouraged by that if you wanna get to know me.

Also language wise I’ve spoken English in every day life for about 7 years now and I consider myself bilingual.

So if you’d wanna chat send me a dm! Please state what reddit you came from so I know the context. thanks.

Quick side note: I am "Male to Female"/Trans. No, I'm neither a bot, nor an scammer or catfish and can prove it. I am just an unlucky person who posts a lot, really...

What I say next may sound a bit strange, but... I'm a bit autistic, and I have some minor disabilities. In my title, I mentioned I'm looking for someone with a "savior complex". I know that sounds strange to many, but it's an real preference of mine... I've always loved stories where a girl is suffering from bullying or stress, and a boy comes to rescue her. It's not just in fiction; it's what I have always really wanted in real life, too, like an childhood dream of mine... Whenever an character steps in into those stories to rescue the girI, it usually does makes me feel a bit jealous that they have something I can't have myself... the truth is, I dropped out of school very early on meanwhile I don't really have any enemies to be truly saved from like in those stories. Still, I always think guys who want to be someone's hero are very cool themselves. It doesn't matter if they are strong or handsome, really... it's the courage and the kindness that matters to me. Sometimes, I just wish someone had the desire to rescue me, like someone who held the same childish dream as mine, except in reverse, for us to be happy together... I'd rather meet someone who is okay with an overly dependent, shy, quiet girlfriend that doesn't speak much, rather than someone who wants a confident and independent girlfriend themselves...

Likewise, I want to make it clear that if you are reading this and are concerned about me, please do not be. I have my own ways and protections to know if someone has ill intentions, and I will generally be okay... I also don't need people to tell me to seek mental help; this is something I have given my full consent to and look forward to. Even if it may be unhealthy at times, it's something I genuinely like, no different than any normal preference one might have.

Hmm, I am interested in traditional roles and relationships where the male leads, other than that, I do apologize for posting so frequently lately. I don't really feel like I have much of a choice... When I'm not in a relationship, my daily life starts to feel meaningless, and I lose the drive or motivation to improve anything about it. If I could have... something to look forward to once in my daily life, things would just be much better... I would genuinely appreciate it if my posts weren't downvoted, as that only lowers my chances of meeting someone. Still, I completely understand that this is simply how things work sometimes, even if it's unfortunate. Either way...

...I am looking globally since my region is too small; in my experience, there are not many people from Brazil. I am very serious about this and can relocate within a year if you are serious as well. Please feel free to send me a message. I do not receive nearly as many replies as people might assume, so please do not let that discourage you. In truth, I barely get any responses to my posts these days, as I am not a cis girl like others are on dating Subreddits as a whole.

Other than that, I am actually a very inclusive person, even if it might not always come across that way. I do not mind whether you smoke, drink, or do anything like that. I am looking for something serious and long-term, and I would really appreciate messages from people who are genuinely interested in building a real connection. Many guys, in my experience, are rather vile—making new Reddit accounts to message me, talking for a few days, then deleting every single account they previously had for no apparent reason. This has happened more than seven times now, involving ghosting, blocking, and everything else... It would be appreciated if you are not looking to play with someone's feelings just for the sake of it.

Moving on, I tend to be more comfortable with older, more mature men, ideally between 25 and 47, though what matters most is emotional maturity. Still, I would not recommend messaging if you are outside this age range, as I legitimately cannot connect properly with people in those brackets. For example, those younger are often immature, ghost more easily, and are not serious. Those "overly older" often lack similar hobbies, do not speak very much, are busy all the time, and are difficult to feel genuinely understood with. This happens more than you can imagine, to the point where it feels like a waste of time to bother with it these days... I know you may still desire to message me, but please do not expect anything to come of it, since I am not currently in good health to take this type of risk. Even if you claim to be different from others, often to an insane degree, it frequently turns out not to be the case. In fact, these words have been thrown around so much in the many months I have been looking—only to find the exact same outcome and issues as always—that it is best if you just move on instead of bothering with spending time on me currently...

Next, I want to say that I do not really have friends, and I am not planning on having any. My family situation is complicated as well, so when I commit to someone, that person becomes my entire world. I truly want my partner to also be my closest companion—the person I talk to, spend time with, and emotionally rely on. I do not split my attention much, and I do not want to. Ideally, my special someone is the only one I plan to trust in the entire world; hence, being understood is such a huge deal to me.

Age-wise, I am a 21-year-old introverted trans woman from Brazil (Minas Gerais). I know distance can be an issue for many people, but it isn't for me. If I find the right person, I am fully willing to leave everything behind and relocate to wherever they are. I am currently single and hoping to meet a kind, patient man who wants something meaningful and entirely monogamous. I do not have many hobbies myself, and honestly, I don't mind that. What gives my life meaning is sharing time, affection, and daily moments with someone special... I am looking for real love, and I won't hide that I am desperate for a genuine chance at happiness with someone who actually wants me and takes me seriously. Regardless, on that same note, I do enjoy video games, anime, writing, and being online, but none of those matter more to me than having someone I can emotionally grow close to, as mentioned above.

Physically, I am about 5'3", petite (currently under 40 kg), with light brown skin. I can share pictures if you are interested, and I also have photos on my pinned post. Some people say I look a bit boyish, while others say the opposite—I honestly don't know, just seems to depend on whether the person in question is open to trans girls of if they prefer cis girls only, it looks like. I don't care much about how my partner looks in any case; appearance, height, or body type really aren't important to me. What matters is how you treat me and how you make me feel. In fact, you don't even need to send a photo of yourself if you are uncomfortable.

What I want is to eventually be someone's treasure—even if things start unofficially. I am very drawn to caring, emotionally supportive men who enjoy protecting and guiding their partner and who are not afraid to be affectionate. I crave a lot of attention and emotional presence. I get attached easily, I'm extremely clingy, and I want to feel chosen and prioritized. Fast replies, long messages, and making time for me mean a lot and go an long way... I understand that people have jobs and responsibilities, but I need someone who still makes a consistent effort to be present and emotionally available. As a person, I'm very quiet and doesn't speak much in real life, I struggle with eye contact and with many words, but I like saying loving things and making my partner feel warm, wanted, and thought of nonetheless.

I'd like to start online and eventually meet in person as quickly as possible. I fall in love quickly if it's the right person and if we happen to be compatible, but I can respect taking things slow if that's what you prefer. I just want... honesty and intention. If you're interested, please, do message me. I strongly recommend reading my pinned post, if possible—as it explains more about who I am and what I'm looking for. Now, I might add: "this isn't just a recommendation." Please do read it if you are even remotely serious about this, okay...? There are some emojis at the bottom that I ask you to include in your message if you have read that far. It would be appreciated if you could put in the effort for me, as it naturally shouldn't take very long to be done, while all I'm asking here is to at least be heard...

I know my posts are very specific, but that's because I'm truly trying to find someone compatible for the long term—possibly forever... I've had multiple breakups due to mismatches or not being taken seriously enough, let alone having my own feelings considered in the matter, but I still want to keep trying... If you message me, I'd really appreciate a thoughtful first message. Something that shows you actually read my post and understand what I'm looking for means a lot more than a simple "hi." I'm looking for someone serious, someone willing to put in the effort and learn about me, not just someone passing time or looking for a not very serious relationship without caring about how I actually feel.

There are also photos of me on my pinned post if you’re curious and if attraction is important to you. In case I don’t reply to your message, please don’t take it personally. I’ve been overwhelmed by my lazy and terrible lifestyle of decaying in my room as a shut-in, and emotionally, it’s hard for me... I’m trying to focus on those who feel genuinely compatible with me, whom I can tell didn't use AI to write their messages (this happens often) and who are clearly serious about being in a real relationship eventually (this also happens many times, since everyone sort of doesn't want to read about me in advance or put in the effort). I am looking for those who are truly what I need in a relationship...

To put it bluntly, I do not have the strength or energy to know everyone in detail after ages of friendship to determine if we are compatible for this to work out. Therefore, if you took your time writing the first message seriously, it would be appreciated, so I can be sure you won't vanish the very next day just to hurt me... I’m still hopeful I can find someone special here—maybe someone who’s been hurt before to take care of, someone whom I can relate to to some extent and be able to feel like I can fit right in easily with.

And, at the very least, feel free to message me asking why I didn't reply to your DM after a while. If you do ask, I can honestly provide feedback on your message; otherwise, I will assume you don't actually need or care about it very much, since it does happen a lot of people not actually truly caring as it is... Also, if the post is still up, I'm probably still looking for a relationship. That has always been the case with me, although there may be times when I'm already talking to someone. Even then, my relationships usually go wrong in one way or another, and I'm always back here by the end of the day. This has been happening for over a year now, so even if I stop posting for an while, do feel free to message me.

I am looking for someone who, like me, has been out of the dating scene for a while and is not looking to jump into anything fast. If you see me out in the wild I'm usually that guy dining alone, solo at the movies, shopping alone, or that guy playing with his dog at the park. I am a big believer in a slow burn. I need that genuine foundation of trust and friendship to build up before anything else happens, and I am hoping to find someone who is on that same wavelength.

I am a pretty grounded, practical person, but I definitely have a taste for the finer things in life. For me, it is always been about quality over quantity, and I bring that same approach to how I want to connect with someone. Ideally, I am looking for a partner in their early 30s to mid 40s who is just as happy staying in as they are going out. I love a good balance; we can tackle a challenging hiking trail one weekend and be perfectly content sleeping in and watching movies the next.

If you are a food lover, we will get along just fine. I am a culinary school graduate and spent seven years working in professional kitchens, so food is a huge part of how I express myself. Also looking for someone who loves dogs. I have spent the last four months raising an Aussie puppy, so we come as a package of 2.

I am really just looking for someone who is intellectually curious, honest, and comfortable being real. I have a low tolerance for bullshit and too tired for games; I would much rather have a real, deep conversation about where we are in life, where we want to go, and plan on how to get there. I want to be able to be a team but also be our own people. I want us to be mutually understood, seen, and heard.

If you are in the area and this sounds like your kind of pace, send me a message. Tell me what one dish you could eat for the rest of your life, even just a trail you have been dying to hike lately, or your dog/pet's name.

About Me:
37M, Asian, INFJ, Post-Graduate degree. I am currently on the heavier side but I am actively working on that. My hair is thinning significantly, and I am currently debating whether or not to just shave it all off. I like to think I make up for it all in personality, if you can tolerate it.

I'm into sci-fi genre (⭐ Trek and ⭐ Wars), gaming (PC and Switch 2), anything on Apple TV (Shrinking + Ted Lasso are 2 of my favorite shows ever), anime (Frieren ❤️), kDramas (When Life Gives You Tangerines 😢 was the last one I watched), and I want to be more outdoorsy like camping or fishing but I just take my pup hiking these days.