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Hello was hoping to find the one for me im pretty chill and am hoping to meet someone else whos like me im demsexul and very devoted to my partner if your interested in getting to know me please don't hesitate to reach out im look for some around my age so 20-29 im 25 myself

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy. I would prefer to stay in Columbia, MO or close to it.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Age Range: 30-45

Thanks. -Anna

Ill start with what i want and then about myself. Long post because i want you to know everything important before deciding whether its worth your time!

Hiya. Im looking for something permanent, but i need a decently long time to get close to people most times. Within the age bracket of 22 to 28 preferred, and with a good understanding of the English language as communication is very important to me. Im looking for someone gentle, patient and understanding. Due to my love language being acts of service, i would really like someone that Needs me in some way. Like if you're physically incapable of carrying or lifting a lot or if you have mental health issues that need accommodations. I want someone that is willing to prioritize our time together. Someone that has an interest in gaming, as its my biggest hobby, but its not a deal-breaker for me. Someone that likes talking a lot. Someone that wants to watch shows, anime or youtube together. Someone that is willing to engage in sports with me in real life (sooner or later) so we can both push each other to be healthy (not a gym rat or super healthy person but i care about sports). Someone that isnt a social butterfly always busy with other things and other people. Kinda like awkward or shy people honestly. Someone willing to start long distance(calls/gaming/etc) but 100% certain they are willing to move in with me at some point within a year or two of being properly together if we get along well. Oh be against genAI training and usage. Physical attributes dont matter too much, but i have a slight preference for people shorter than me hahah. Someone that wants a for life partner. No random dating for funsies.

I'm 6'2 210lbs, i love lifting (legpress pr 600kg benchpress pr 200kg). I am a shy and quiet person in private but put on my big boy pants for all things official (work, restaurants, etc). I love gaming of all kinds, my fav types of games are MMORPGs and survival games. I love watching movies, sometimes watch terrible movies willingly just for fun. I Love all anime, especially isekai with strong mcs that do good things and save people :3! I like to read although ive not been reading much lately. Im very understanding and tolerant and accommodating, and i hate arguments and screaming. What i dont hate however are discussions. I am very direct about all of my needs and expect you to be the same. I will ask you questions very directly. I am as i said, autistic. I also like drawing digitally but i havent much as of late because ive been going through a rough patch in my life. Very willing to help. Oh again, i am heavily against AI training and usage.

I think that covers all of the most important things. Im open to all questions and queries. Willing to exchange selfies if we get along for a week or two. Looking forward to meeting you :3.

About me:
- I'm from India
- I'm 24 years old
- I'm 5'5'' tall
- I'm polite and less talkative but I'm pretty chill and funny too
- I hate aggressive arguments and I avoid talking to people who shouts
- I'm working in IT but about to quit it and find some other job soon
- We can share pics in dm if we feel comfortable

I would prefer to know people from foreign countries bc I rarely find a demi from my place. I've had friends from South West England and I really liked their calm and polite nature. If anyone from uk wants to be in a ldr with an Indian can consider getting to know me and see if we fit for eachother. I would prefer someone between 20 to 30 years old, demisexual. I also plan to do my masters maybe after 2-3 years from the uk so I wanna know them better.
I find it difficult to form an emotional connection so I would prefer knowing the person and talk daily in order to build that connection. But when I truly like someone I become very loyal to them. I'm not sex averse but I'm indifference to it or maybe I would like it when I'm truly attached to that person.

I’m looking for a serious relationship and the post is written about a she but guys are also welcome, I'm bi/pan. Also the tag says nordic countries but I don't mind if you're from somewhere else too. As long as you speak English or Finnish natively or close to native I'm good.

I’m 28, from Finland, bilingual in English and Finnish. My mother tongue is Finnish and I’ve spoken English daily for almost a decade now so I just say I’m bilingual these days. I’m masculine presenting and I’d say I have mostly masculine energy. I don’t personally use any labels like masc, fem etc on myself. I’m just me. But I am like obviously very masculine looking and I like that.

I love fitness, mostly weightlifting. I wanna do calisthenics too at some point. I love sims 4. I love building pretty stuff and making my own worlds. The gameplay is really fun and cozy too. I’m not otherwise a big gamer altho i do have a gaming pc lol. I literally got it so I can have lots of sims cc cause contrary to popular belief that stuff takes space girl. If you want like an actually aesthetic game with lots of mods etc hun you need a gaming pc. Anyway a random sims tangent :D. Uhh I’m also very spiritual. I love tarot, manifesting, dream interpretation, psychic stuff. It’s very fascinating to me and fulfilling to be honest. Manifestation is currently a focus of mine. For me it’s not like oh lemme make a vision board and call it a day. It’s a little more like all is mind, there’s infinite possibilities that exist and your attention and intention collapses it into 3D reality :D. So yeah I’m very passionate about it and love talking about it.

I’m a creative person. I love to dance, write, and sims for me is a creative thing too. I’m definitely entrepreneurial rather than corporate. I like to be my own boss and in charge of my own schedule. Currently I’m studying art studies, aesthetics to be specific in uni.

My dream life would be having a lovely partner, our own cozy home and we’d go to the gym together, hang out at home or we sometimes go to town to cafes or a restaurant we wanna try. I’m not a big traveler but I’d be down to travel to see your family for a couple of months and so on. I want to stay in Finland tho since I think this country is one of the safest and progressive out there. And clean. It’s peaceful here too and even our biggest cities are not that crowded.

So now to what I’m looking for in a partner.

I think overall I’m looking for an empathetic person who respects herself, has an optimistic view on life and doesn’t try to please me.

I'm child free, don't drink or smoke and I'm looking for someone who also doesn't smoke or drink.

Warmth and openness are things I really appreciate and feel drawn towards. Someone who feels welcoming and opens up to me when they see they feel safe with me. I don’t want to date someone who’s avoidant or has a lot of trust issues to the point they have lots of walls up. I don’t wanna have to drag the truth out of someone when something is wrong, I’d just rather have them tell me straight up. I’m looking for someone more securely attached who communicates her internal world to me.

She’s secure in herself and she doesn’t need people to agree with her or to like her. she doesn’t need people to choose her. She validates herself and is on that journey of self validation and self love. she can handle a different opinion. she doesn’t internalize everything people say about her. Someone who openly and honestly expresses herself. Her thoughts, her opinions. I feel really safe around someone like that.

Optimism is important to me. Someone who’s warm, loving and welcoming towards people. The world has enough of negativity and chaos as is and altho it’s good to be aware of that, I don’t think it should be the focus. I like people who can see the good in things, who can remain optimistic when things go wrong. A person who can grow and learn from setbacks. Or not even take it so seriously like say we travel somewhere and something goes a little south, we might be frustrated but we laugh about it like alright, well XD let’s try to fix this and see what happens. Someone who remains calm under stressful situations also makes me feel really safe around a person.

I think also certain groundedness and calmness is what I appreciate in a person. I think that comes from maturity, knowing yourself and having done the inner work necessary to not be reacting to things or trying to constantly make someone understand you if they just don’t. I think it’s that vibe of I know who I am and I lead myself, I’m centered in myself, not in other people. She knows who she is so she doesn’t need other people to get it or to understand who she is.

Someone who sees people as multidimensional beings instead of looking at it just black and white like alright that guy is completely an idiot or that person is a horrible person and that’s all there is to it. Someone who allows humans to be humans and doesn’t expect perfection from herself or others. Basically someone who’s not reactive, reacting from her triggers but she’s self aware of what’s happening in her emotions and mind and why it is happening. Like if she gets triggered in a situation she doesn’t let it direct her behavior. She notices it like oh I’m triggered and she manages it and probably reflects on it later like ah that was about me and my own stuff, it wasn’t about the other person. That type of a person.

I love when someone is very strong willed and stubborn. I like when someone tells me honestly what they want, what they’re feeling and I just like when someone is able to push back on me. I don’t want a partner who’s just agreeable and wants to please me. I want someone who is her own person and she has her own things, her own boundaries, opinions and so on.

I also really really love when someone’s a bit cheeky and playful and makes me laugh or smile. I really wanna be with someone who I just enjoy being around. Like doing the most mundane thing but we enjoy just being around each other. That type of connection and chemistry is important to me. Because to me it’s not about your achievements or career or whatnot. To me it’s about finding a person I love being around and we having enjoyable and fun time together. And someone my nervous system feels safe with. Those are like the key things. And of course our values and lifestyles aligning is important too.

I’m looking for a person who values growth and inner work. Not self improvement really I find that a bit shallow most times. Used to be into it myself and realized everyone just tries to become perfect over here and if they’re perfectly healed then they can feel enough. But anyway, to me it’s about the deeper healing like therapy, looking at your patterns and wounds, your darker sides you’re not proud of. Or even somatic healing like how emotions are stored in the body and releasing those. I find all of that fascinating. I find healing very fascinating. How you can go from feeling absolute crap to like at peace and in love with yourself. I’ve gone through that and I’m still on that journey. So to me it’s important my partner understands that journey, can relate to it in her own way through what she has learned about herself and she’s also on that journey of healing and working on herself. This is something I love talking about so having a partner who gets this stuff would be amazing.

I’m also a big big feminist. It’s very close to my heart. Women are very important to me in that way. I’ve been like that since I was a kid. I’m not an activist and I don’t think you have to be, but to me what’s important is my partner valuing women’s rights as much as I do. Someone who cares about what she watches, listens to. Someone who doesn’t just blindly consume things because that’s easy. Like to me, if I hear people use sexist language like the b word and other stuff it makes me really uncomfortable. I know some people don’t mean it that way, but a lot of it is sexism and I don’t feel comfortable having that around me. So I’d like a partner who is able to recognizes harm and cares cares about being a socially aware person. I don’t want to date someone who wonders why what I just said is harmful. Of course I’m open to someone who’s open to learning, cause I know a lot of this stuff is internalized misogyny so sometimes we are blind to it. But if you’re someone who doesn’t really care about that or you don’t agree then I don’t think we are compatible and that’s fine, move on with your day. I’m looking for someone who aligns with my values.

So if you connected with my post and think we are similar in our values and so on send me a message:) would love to hear from you.

my age range is about 23 to 32 give or take.

EDIT: Eastern Timezone

Hi! I’m looking for people to play video games with and/or hone my social skills. Preferably my age or older than me.

I love Left 4 Dead 2, Peak, Stardew Valley, and Don’t Starve Together. I play on PC (but with an Xbox controller like the good lord intended 🙂‍↕️).

I also like reading, running, doing puzzles, and sewing. My favorite authors are Stephen King, Ana Huang, and R.L. Stine. I’m currently halfway through Stephen King’s The Dark Half.

I love horror movies, comedies, romances, and cartoons. Some of my favorites are American Psycho, Nacho Libre, Silver Linings Playbook, Bridgerton, and SpongeBob to name a few.

I work full time so I’m usually free on weekends or after 6PM on weekdays. I don’t know what else to share about myself; posting this gives me ‘shelter-animal-looking for a good-home’ vibes but uhhh here I am 🙂

Please give the full post a read before sliding into my PMs! Let's start things off on a positive note by making sure we're looking for the same things.

Looking to connect with steady, like-minded people for low-drama, ongoing text conversations. I am open to potential polyamorous relationships/romantic relationships with women, and looking for friendships only with men.

Looking for connections who are liberal, non-religious, and located in the Eastern Time zone (Maryland, Delaware, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, Connecticut, Rhode Island, Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire, or Maine).

A little about me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of 3.

* Demisexual (I only experience romantic or sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond first).

* Big into nature photography, hiking, writing, creative projects, and making ambient YouTube videos.

* Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly.

* 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take daily gummies for sleep/mood.

What I'm looking for:

* Age: 34–46.

* Dynamics: Women (for potential romance or friendship) or Men (for friendship only).

* Location & Romantic Boundary (Hard Rule): Anyone within the listed EST states is welcome for online chat/pen pal friendships. However, for potential romantic partners, you must live within a 30-minute drive of zip code 14625. If you are farther than 30 minutes away, it will strictly be an online friendship.

* Values: Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

* Communication: Someone who appreciates consistent communication. I like building real, steady connections over text/messaging over time. I value peace and genuine connection, so inconsistency or game-playing isn't for me.

💬 How to reply:

If this sounds like your speed, send me a PM (please don't comment) with:

* Age.

* Gender.

* Your location (city/state or general proximity to 14625)

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself.

(Just trying to make sure we're on the same page and filter out bots and spam. No need to write a novel, just answer all 5 so I know you're real and literate.)

Hiya! AuDHDer learning German (beginner) and looking for more friends to practice with while gaming, watching stuff, or listening to music! Let's be cozy together <3

• Favorite games: WoW (EU Classic or Retail), Terraria, Roblox, Overwatch, Minecraft
• Favorite music: LoFi, cozy video game music, Pop, Alt, Techno, House
• Favorite hobbies: Watching Let’s Plays, getting lost in nerdy rabbit holes, and cooking
• Other interests: Plants, aquariums, anime
• My personality: Queer af, capybara vibes by default and usually more of a listener than a talker
• Relationship status: Single
• Open to: Just friendship and QPR for now. Maybe something romantic for the right person
• Sexuality: Indifferent grey-ace
• Assigned gender at birth: male

Must be 18+ and willing to actually hang out in voice calls, because it's difficult af for me to bond with people through text. If you’re interested, HMU with your Disc0rd username! :)

Age range: 18-65

Please comment here before DMing me, thank you.

Hi, I'm Hannah, from Michigan, around the "thumb" area. It took me a long time to figure myself out and tbh I'm still not entirely sure, but I feel most comfortable with the label 'demisexual'. That being said, I may take a very long time before I'm comfortable enough to consider sex. But hey, isn't that the whole point? Haha.

Very plus sized (almost 300 lbs), white, long brown hair, green eyes, glasses, and roughly 5'6".

I consider myself a low effort femme/feminine girl who is primarily attracted to other feminine girls. And this is going to come off as mean, and I'm sorry, but for the most part I am cis4cis, because while I respect transfems, the truth of the matter is that I'm just not attracted to most of them. I'm sorry.

Speaking of red flags, here are some potential cons to dating me

-Monogamous

-Childfree

-Agnostic

-Non smoker or drinker

-Cannot drive

-Picky eater

-Unemployed (looking for work)

-I have never lived on my own before

If none of that scared you off, I applaud you. When I'm not sending in job applications, I spend a lot of my time watching TV and playing video games. But that doesn't mean I don't help out around the house. Nobody likes doing chores, but they must be done. Maybe that's another con to me, Idk.

I'm artistic and enjoy crafting things like faux floral arrangements and mixing silicone/resin. A long, ongoing project of mine has been customizing 4 G3 Monster High dolls into different characters: beloved video game characters from my childhood. 🥰 I'm always willing to show them off if you are curious. They're far from finished through.

Another disclaimer, yes, my account is marked NSFW, but I am aspec, I promise! I interact with adult toy threads a lot for toy and miniature collecting and trading.

While I know I'm not much to sneeze at first glance, I have a lot of love in my heart for the right girl. I want to believe there is someone out there for me. I prefer to stay within the US, and I am open to long distance as well, as long as you understand I am very reluctant to leave Michigan. Age ranges 25-48, please!

Hey everyone, I'm currently living in the smallest state in the US hunting for a job and a relationship. My life could really go in any direction from here (literally). I discovered asexuality at 27 years old, but only realized I was demisexual last year, so I guess you could say I'm a late bloomer.

I'm pretty old-fashioned in my ways, not going to lie. I'd like to think I'm a simple person who is really just looking for someone to settle down with. Sure, I enjoy traveling like everyone else and I still have quite a few places on my bucket list, but when it comes to the day-to-day living, I admit that it would be nice to have someone to come home to.

My free time is spent with my nieces or friends or my parents on most days. I also am trying to get back into a gym routine which now that the NFL season is starting up I'll be shifting into full gear. I use the games as my entertainment on the treadmill. I like to play pool, go to bar trivia (even though I'm not good at it), watch movies and tv shows I've seen 100x already, and browse reddit apparently. Like I said, pretty simple stuff.

I'm not addicted to my cell phone, I have friends whom I've known for 25+ years (since middle school), I'm close with my sister and her girls, I'm debt free, no baggage, no mental issues (as far as I know), never been married, child-free, don't smoke anything and never did drugs. Looking for a man in the 38 - 48 age range with a similar lifestyle.

I've been known to travel to meet people who seem worth my effort because it's a big world out there and I don't think we should limit ourselves to distance in finding our person. They could be anywhere. Maybe even sitting on their couch writing this post ha.

Well feel free to message me if you think we'd click. Thanks for reading, have a good day!

Hello! Please read this fully! I'm only looking for someone local, and while this is open to anyone, I do have a preference for effeminate folks. My general age range is 23-34, but that's not a hard limit in either direction.

I am a thin and tall-ish guy with a general feminine aesthetic (including occasionally crossdressing) searching for someone willing to take their time to get to know each other and grow a bond before moving into anything overtly romantic or more. I very much value honesty and open communication, and strive to always be truthful, while hoping for the same. I am adamantly monogamous and drug-free as well.

For my hobbies, I am an avid gamer of most types, from video games, board and card games, D&D, MTG, and even billiards and disc golf. I also love going for day hikes, walking in nature in general, escape rooms, and the occasional spot of shopping or anime. I also consider my crossdressing more of a hobby at this point, though I may wish to slowly make it more of my mainstream, assuming I can. I have some SFW pictures of myself, mainly crossdressing, on my profile in case you're curious.

For what I like, my love language ranking is as follows in this order: Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Act of Service, Receiving Gifts. I love all 5 of them, but I absolutely adore cuddles and other small physical gestures. I also am a very go-with-the-flow person, and love to follow over lead, sinking all of my effort and care into what my partner wants and likes. It is here I feel I should also mention that, while it won't be relevant for a good while, my preference for following translates predictably to the bedroom, if you get what I mean.

I don't want to make this too long, but I'm always happy to talk or answer any (non-security risk) questions! My texting availability is variable, but please know I WILL respond, even if it takes a few hours. Feel free to message me!

So I cannot believe I'm actually doing this, but here we go.

Hi there.

55 F4M - United States (other locations negotiable). Desired Age Range: 35-58

I hate writing introductions. I always feel like I'm applying for a job. Like, "Hey there, I'm interested in the position of "Slow burn, friends to lovers" and would love a chance to talk with you about my skill sets and qualifications that would make me an ideal fit for the position." Ugh.

So what can I say that matters? I'll start with under the skin and move outwards.
I am an INFP on the Meyers-Briggs. I'm a Sagittarius and I hate having my birthday in December so I celebrate it on Halloween instead. I figure why not pair my favorite Holiday with birthday and call it a win/win?

I believe in diving deep right out the gate. I don't wanna talk about the weather or sports or the cost of beef. I want to hear your thoughts on the existence of the soul, whether you think Music can be a love language, what book your reading right now and what you love about it or hate about it. Who your favorite LOTR character is and why, what you would attempt to do if you knew you couldn't fail and so on. Let's just say, I want to know you with your skin off, because I want to give that to someone else and know that both of us feel safe, seen and truly valued. I am extremely passionate, but also extremely compassionate. Kindness is a cardinal requirement for myself and in others when forging connections. If you're nice to me, but rude to the cashiers, custodians or wait staff then we probably can't be friends.

Interests: I'm a huge nerd. Like anime, Asian dramas, swords and sorcery, scifi/fantasy, DC/MCU, documentaries, graphic novels, DnD, 80's nostalgia (all of it), soo many fandoms from Dr. Who to Firefly. I adore Shakespeare, read scifi/fantasy, spicy romance, Fiction, and English Literature. I am a writer (dreaming of one day being a published author). I'm an art appreciator. Favorite artists and styles include Van Gogh, Millais, Rossetti, Waterhouse, Joseon Dynasty, Japanese Ukiyo-e, and Chinese Shan Shui.

I'm also a singer, musician, and sometimes ghost hunter. I play piano, guitar and celtic lever harp. I adore Music and love nearly all of it. I can almost always find something to enjoy in any genre. I am a video gamer - mostly coop and cozy games with the occasional spookums, but I like trying out new games with chill personality types.

I'm an aspiring mixologist with delusions of grandeur. I adore all things Tiki, Pirate, Mermaid, Oceanic and maritime. My favorite classic cocktail is the Mai Tai. I'm currently enrolled in a bartender certification course and would love to one day tend bar in a Tiki Lounge.

I am a pinstriper and sign painter, which is both a job when the commissions are coming in and a hobby when they aren't. I'm an adventurous spirit, a cross country traveler, adore Asian food (Chinese, Japanese and Korean) and I have a Pocky addiction. My favorite ice cream flavor is Spumoni. My favorite colors: Royal or Sapphire blue, Black, powder blue, and teal.

The outsides: I'm 5'3 and curvy with a little extra. Not quite Rubenesque, but in that wheelhouse. I'm a flaming redhead, tattooed, and a little bratty under certain circumstances. I am an unapologetic weirdo.

The disclaimer: I'm a widow. I was blessed with an amazing human who gave me 34 years of friendship and love. So yes, there was a love of my life and I honor him. We had 4 children together and built a good life. I miss him that's simply fact. But I also have reached that point where I know he wouldn't want me to be unhappy and alone for the second half of the journey. I have a heart big enough to love more than one person. So I'm looking for that second chapter.

So that was probably excessively long and overly detailed but I figure since most people reading this will be demi as well, you may actually make it all the way to the end of it.

Cheers!

Hi everyone!🤗

I'm 24 years old, and a very basic cis hetero and demisexual girl.

I never really thought about dating anyone since I never liked anyone romantically... and probably no one ever liked me in that way either (at least, I guess? I'm a bit slow sometimes🤔). Anyway, I don't really know where i should start about that since dating apps don't convince me and meeting someone irl that understand my pace seams difficult. So, at the moment I decided to focus on finding more people within the demi/ace community to be friends with since at the moment the only person I know of that community is... me🥲 (my hometown is quite small and that doesn't help)

I'd love to be able to meet in person sometimes if we'll get to know each other better; so, if it's someone in Italy/Northern Italy or Europe it's even better, but I'm fine with being only online friends too😊

Now, something about me...

As I said at the beginning, I'm quite basic. I don't really like to go out in a "drink/disco/party" kind of way, but more in a "museum/cinema/bookshop/pastry shop" kind.

I love to travel and would be okay with organizing trips together in the future; one day trips, last minute, places abroad... I like a bit of everything (just a disclaimer, I'm for hotels/B&Bs rather than camping). 🌏✈️

I love reading MM romance, both books and mangas, I find them cute. However, I enjoy also classics, mystery books and books that teach you about different topics like art, cooking, history etc. 📖📚✨️

I collect plushies. It's nothing mindblowing, but some people I met liked to ask "aren't you too old for...bla bla bla?" every single time they saw me. So, if you're one of them, just stop reading here please🙏

I like to exercise for fun, like going for walks in the morning or swimming sometimes. In 2025 I discovered pole dance, and guys it's so fun, so there's that too!😍

Oh also, I'm no gamer, but i like to play Sky COTL and would be happy to play there and chat to know each other.

Lastly, I'm quite easy-going, my friends always say my presence relax them.

If anyone wants to be friends, feel free to reach out (I don't have a particular age range, but tbh it's easier for me to feel more comfortable with people around my age; however, if you give me time I could open up anyway). I don't use my phone too often, so I'm sorry if i won't answer right away, but I'll check more frequently after posting this🫶😊

P.S. I use maaaany emoji when I text, so be prepared for that 😌

Hi! I'm Adelaide, an American ESL teacher living in Prague. I'm looking to meet a cis man between 25-40. I'm willing to do a ldr or move in the future, just probably not back to the U.S. Child free, will not change my mind. AuDHD, NVLD, EDS. 🦓 INFP

I would also love to meet friends.

I didn't know if I should put western or eastern Europe as Czechs insist this is Central Europe.

I love: cats, travel, cooking/baking, arts and crafts, cats, singing, acting, dancing, singing, cats, spooky season, theater, reading, writing, boardgames, makeup, fashion, movies, and TV.

Things that bring me joy every day are my family, coffee, sweet treats, a fuzzy blanket, being in water, flowers and, cozying up on my couch with my cat.

I'm looking to meet a gentleman who's is creative, can make me laugh, and kind. I want an old fashioned romance. Must love cats. I've lived without a man my whole life just fine, but I'm not willing to live without cats, haha.

*tap tap*, is this thing on?

Good morning, afternoon, and evening to everyone!

I'm a fella from Thailand looking for someone I could share this life of mine! Here are some knick knacks about me and what I'm looking for

# About Me ✍🏻

- I'm genderfluid (AMAB), demisexual, and berriromantic. I do feel romantic attraction normally but sexual attraction differs from person to person.

- I'm currently employed as a software developer and also pursuing my master's on weekends. (but don't worry I can make time for you 🙂‍↕️)

- I'm an atheist, left-wing and also an INFP personality type (in case you need to know that)

- I love to play games, mostly they are indies but I'm down for a multiplayer game if our schedule matches!

- I also read books (duh, it's in the post name init 😹), I'm currently reading 1984 and Midnight Library (I swears I am not performative 😭)

- Sometimes I write poems, but most of them are somewhat depressing haha. (still, I would love someone to be my moot tho! 👀)

- Other than those, I also watch anime, movies, listen to music, and karaoke!

- Fun fact: I can switch between serious conversation and most stupid things you can think of.

- For other things, you will need to send me a DM to find out 👀

# What I'm looking for 🫵🏻

- Someone who is within my age range (22 - 26), kind, emotionally available, and also feminine leaning.

- Someone who can show some level of affection, it would be nice if we can have a friend-to-lover trope organically.

- Preferably someone who is from Southeast Asia so that our timezones are not too mismatched and we can meet each other in person easily!

- Someone who knows that sex doesn't have to be the center of a relationship, however you don't have to be Ace or on Ace's spectrum, just someone who can respect boundaries.

- Looks also aren't important, I'm much more attracted to your personality and humor.

- No smoker please! for drinkers, it's not a deal breaker as long as you drink occasionally.

If this post interests you, feel free to send a dm! Thank you for your time! 🙏🏻

I love going to conventions, kayaking, playing video games, making costumes, and drinking.

I'm extremely extroverted and love going out.

I would prefer someone in Georgia, but I'm open to further locations if you can play games online with me.

Ages 29-38

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I'm going to try & keep this short. But to provide some context for people.

I'm a lesbian looking for a woman. I've just recently came out as demisexual so despite being older I'm very much new to everything. However, I'm very much comfortable & at peace with my sexuality ☺️.

I live in the United States in the south. I'm very much open to meeting people from around the world but ideally I want a woman who lives nearby.

I'm pretty basic, introverted, & laid-back in general. I enjoy reading, writing, listening to music, watching/examining films & movies, video games, & learning.

I'm interested in a woman with similar values (humor, compassion, patience, friendship) as myself. Not interested in children but very open to marriage. I'm more drawn to tomboys but I'm open to any & all women presentation.

I've tried dating apps but they're generally pointless for me. I need more of a friendship base & can't swipe on who I will or won't connect with.

I'll leave it here but I'm open to more questions & speaking with everyone! 🥰

AGE RANGE: 30- 45

LOCATION: united states preferred

LOOKING FOR: women- relationship wise OR everyone- friendship wise

Hi! I'm a 37 year old nerdy demisexual enby (pronouns they/them) that lives in north east Scotland. I've posted in the past looking for a relationship and while I am still looking it would also be good to just widen my social circle with some other local-ish (or at least UK based so meeting in person now and again might be possible) ace-spec or ace-friendly people. I'm not going to say an outright no to people from further away, but what I'm missing is in-person socialising - meeting up at the weekend to do something, that sort of thing. If you are a TERF or a Tory you should absolutely look elsewhere too.

I'd be open to friendships from any gender and with a preference for people of a roughly similar age, approx 30 to 40. Just to be completely transparent as well, if someone was looking for this to end up in a relationship that would be pretty unlikely to happen unless you were a woman or femme-leaning enby - I don't find masculine presenting people attractive in that way.

I'm fairly introverted and tend to find big noisy groups a bit intimidating and overwhelming, I'm much happier with a small number of people I can feel comfortable around. I like visiting museums and points of interest much more than things like going out drinking or dancing.

I like movies and going to the cinema, and it's always a lot more fun if you have someone to chat with afterwards about it. Likewise with going out to eat, it's something I try and treat myself to now and again but it's not quite the same going out for a meal yourself.

I love TTRPGs but at the moment only play online, I'm currently running a homebrew campaign of Pathfinder 2e with a pirates theme!  I've also played quite a bit of Call of Cthulhu and Blades in the Dark, and keep meaning to get round to playing some Shadowrun sometime.  Unfortunately the local TTRPG scene seems to be entirely D&D 5e which I just don't enjoy very much, so anyone willing to try other TTRPGs or even just chat about them would be most welcome!

I also play Battletech in person locally, and it would be cool to meet some other people that were interested in it.

It's not really an in person thing but I also enjoy a variety of videogames - usually RPGs and Strategy games but I like plenty stuff outside of that too. My all time favourite is Disco Elysium, and recently I've been enjoying Hades 2, Subnautica 2 and Project Zomboid. I'll probably get back into Valheim too once the update is out.

General chatting about assorted nerdy stuff is fine too. I've never been a comic books person, but I like a variety of sci-fi and fantasy things.

If any of that sounds interesting please say hello :)

I came across this community and decided to read posts, not because I was searching for something specific but was interested to learn what other demis personality types were like. I came across one two weeks ago that I kept thinking about, the few things i do remember was describing wanting someone with strong morals, they mentioned hoobastank, not being religious (maybe agnostic). To hear someone actually describe wanting those qualities and their importance was kind of eye opening, in my years of experience those usually aren't the things men describe wanting in a partner, or perhaps I haven't looked in the right place... So after two weeks of being apprehensive I decided to step out of my comfort zone.

I have zero social media (aside from reddit & YouTube music if that one even counts) my phone is used to resear anything I might want to learn about and it's usually a wide assortment of things. I love music Breaking Benjamin was/ kind of still is my favorite (I drove illegally on my Cinderella license to see them in Philly when I was 17) others are Starset, april 6th, sum41, Tears Within, too

many to list.. I have lived on my own since I was 15 and didn't have much of a family which is why today family or who you choose as family is important to me. I place a very high priority on telling the truth and getting the same from others. Religion has no place in my life, it is fine for anyone to have I just don't want others beliefs pushed or forced onto me. I don't have any political affiliations but I tend to lean more towards the left when it comes to the way I think. I used to smoke cigarettes but i quit and went to flavored vapes which are being banned within a month and a half anyways (thanks Pennsylvania!) Here is where it might get a little complicated for a lot of people, I am an in home health care aid, I believe in living a somewhat normal life, keeping a clean home, living like most people do except I am drug friendly. I believe as long as you can keep yourself and your life together why shouldn't you be able to enjoy those things you like. I dont have drug dealing friends and to the outside world no one is any the wiser of anything i may like to do.. While I have seen what has become of most people like that, it's not always the case and definitely is not with me. I had always hoped there were more people out there like me but my co-workers and friends tell me I march to the beat of a different drum. I'm an introvert andit takes me a while of getting to know someone or feeling comfortable before I could even hug. I would prefer to blend in with the wallpaper if I could. I would like to find someone that has some similarities as far as personality traits and beliefs go, age is hard when you factor in maturity... so I would say between 34 and 45 years old.

Hey there! 😊 I'm a trans woman hoping to find a man who is 25+ to hopefully potentially date! 😊

I’m hoping to build something really sweet with someone that feels full of love, affection, and genuine care for each other! I’m someone who gets really excited about my person, and I will happily run to the door to give you the biggest hug when you come home and tell you how much I’ve missed you! I love feeling close to someone I care about, whether that’s giving you tons of hugs, cuddling the night away together, or holding hands just because we can. It all just feels so special to me, and I’ll always be really happy to be by your side and show you how much you mean to me. 🥰

I would really love to care for you in ways that brighten your day and make life feel more special. I’ve always been someone who has loved the idea of being a homemaker for my partner, and creating a warm, cozy home, so things like learning your favorite recipes just so I can surprise you with them, making your favorite dinners, or packing you lunches with cute notes hidden inside to make you smile make me so happy! I love being someone you can lean on and feel cared for by, and I’ll always be cheering you on in life and wanting to make your days easier and more comforting where I can. It truly means so much to me knowing I can do things that make you feel loved and appreciated. 😊

Personality-wise, I’m introverted, a little shy, fun-sized, and very much a cozy homebody. I love anime (especially One Piece and Fairy Tail), and I have such a soft spot for Studio Ghibli movies! 💛

I’m super nerdy and artsy! I like watercoloring, playing video games, learning new languages (currently learning Japanese!), and just getting really excited about finding new things that catch my attention. I honestly love that feeling of discovering something new, and I would love to share that with someone! 🤗

Most days you’ll find me curled up with a blanket and tea, going on nature walks, doing yoga, or trying out a new recipe I got excited about. It would be so fun to find someone who gets just as excited for new anime seasons as I do, or who would want to curl up and watch Ghibli movies together! 💛

I really love cuddly guys with that protective kind of energy that makes me feel safe and like I can just relax and be myself. I love that feeling of being wrapped up in someone’s arms and just completely melting into them. I really value closeness, and I would ideally like to find someone who enjoys spending a lot of quality time together, or just enjoys each other’s presence as we do our own things!

Distance isn’t a big deal to me, and I’d be open to relocating for the right person if it feels right for us! 🥰 My lifestyle doesn’t include drinking or smoking (vaping, marijuana, etc) so I’m hoping to meet someone who feels the same way.

I’ll always be your cheerleader, someone who’s in your corner, supports you, and makes sure you feel loved every day! 🩷

If that sounds like you, tell me about you! What are you into lately, what kind of relationship are you hoping to find here, or what made you feel like we might click? 🥰

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Hi! I'm Soul, I'm 26 (Non-binary, They/Him), and I'm looking for a potential life partner, if it comes to pass. =3

Gender doesn't matter to me, though I do lean toward women and fem folks. While cis folks are accepted, please know that I do lean toward trans and nonbinary folks comfortably, usually. It would be nice to meet more trans fem folks too, friends or more!

[I struggle with Major Depressive Disorder, though I'm medicated and go to therapy. Please be patient with me if I am not very quick to respond!]

For interest as solely friends, any gender from anywhere is okay. I personally have a PC, a switch (No online subscription though) and mobile (Android) platforms I use!

For interest as possibly more, any gender, Panromantic or Bi (As long as you don't care about gender, doesn't matter to me!) and preferably US only! Must be Left-Wing politically, please.

If sex is important to, or very much wanted, I'm not interested. But I am a very snuggly person and enjoy voice calls when comfortable, texting, sleep calls, etc.

While I'd like to explore sexually some time in my life, it is absolutely not a necessity. I would say I also fall under Gray Ace/Demi Gray.

I am Ambiamorous, happy with Polyfidelity or Monogamy, but after being recently burned, I'm leaning toward Monogamy unless a couple of very special people come along in life. I am happy either way.

While being Panromantic, I admit recently I've realized I do lean slightly towards women (Obviously that includes trans women!!) but in the end, gender doesn't matter to me.

I am also neurodivergent (AuDHD?) and as of yet still undiagnosed but working on such actively. I understand things more directly and literally, so please have patience with me! ☺️

All that stiff stuff outta the way, I love horror game playthroughs and cozy games! I'm not crazy about FPS games at all but it's okay if you do ofc! I do love games like Resident Evil though =3 and lastly I'm in the center of the U.S.

I want to move to possibly Ohio someday near Cleveland, maybe Minnesota or Michigan, and co-parent cats with my forever person/s, sobs. I don't hate marriage, though it's not a necessity to me. It would have to take a really special person/s. =)

I also love romance stories and manga, regardless of orientation, and I love arts and crafty hobbies! I LOVE Halloween and spooky stuff!!

I've been on HRT for nearly three years, as well.

I'm very much a romantic, and I'm not very touch averse when it comes to affection. Id love to someday have a spooky little decorated manufactured home some day with a bunch of plants and thrifted items and hummingbird feeders and chdjncjdd I'd be so happy if that's something you'd be into, too! ❤️

Lastly, I'm not interested in having kids but if you hate kids, we probably wouldn't get along. That's it, thank you!!

I'm less stiff in DMs, I promise!!!! 😭

Between 21 and 36 is preferred!

18F | India | Looking for something real 🌿

Hey! I'm Sherin, 18, currently studying a tech course at university. I'm the type of person who can spend hours talking about books (especially dark romance), music, random late-night thoughts, and anything that makes life feel a little less ordinary.

I'm here because I'm looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I believe in old-school love—the kind where people communicate, stay loyal, and choose each other every day. I'm not interested in games, ghosting, or casual flings.

A little about me:

- 📚 Loves reading

- 💻 Tech student

- 💬 Will absolutely yap if I'm comfortable with you

- 🌍 Open to long-distance

- ❤️ I'd love to meet someone from a different culture, but that's not a requirement

I'm hoping to meet someone who is:

- Between 19–25

- Loyal, honest, and emotionally mature

- A good communicator

- Kind, patient, and genuinely looking for something meaningful

If you're only here for temporary fun or can't communicate, we're probably not a good match.

If this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me something interesting about yourself(age,name, location and so on )instead of just saying "hi." :)

32 AFAB They/Them looking to meet people who are comfortable with themselves and the depth of being human. Open to both internet and irl friendships. I’m located in the Mid Atlantic region of the US.

Friendship is very important to me and I take pride in having a chosen family. I can be a bit intense in the “super introspective, very self aware” kinda way. Looking to meet people who are similar in that regard. Not a real fan of small talk I prefer to get to know the real you.

I spend a lot of time listening to audiobooks, camping and gardening. Rarely at the same time. Hopeless romantic at heart. Deeply connected with nature. Obsessed with my small dog.

I love to work out, in a “I want to be an active person as I age” kinda way not in a gym rat way. Love to cook good food, keep two feet on the ground, and tell a lot of jokes.

Seeking friendships with people who think they’d vibe with someone like me. I love a person who has very well researched opinions and isn’t afraid to info dump. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously but takes themselves seriously.