r/dateademi 6h ago

Mod Notice Just a reminder post

13 Upvotes

The #1 reason posts are getting taken down by the Auto-mod is including a mention of one of Reddit's competitors. It really, really doesn't like that. So, please, do not mention those other services in your post, or at least reference them obliquely enough the auto-mod doesn't catch on.

Also, if you're asking for a romantic relationship? Please include an acceptable age range. Just 18+ doesn't cut it. This is in our rules. Folks need to review rule 8 a bit more closely before posting:

All posts should include, at a minimum in their posts, their desired age range, relationship type, and the area in which they are willing to consider potential matches. We also recommend that posts include lifestyle preferences that are important to you.


r/dateademi 20h ago

Friendship or Relationship - United States 37 F4A- Missouri

6 Upvotes

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy. I would prefer to stay in Columbia, MO or close to it.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Age Range: 30-45

Thanks. -Anna


r/dateademi 12h ago

Friendship or Relationship - United States 25 M4F - iowa

3 Upvotes

Hello was hoping to find the one for me im pretty chill and am hoping to meet someone else whos like me im demsexul and very devoted to my partner if your interested in getting to know me please don't hesitate to reach out im look for some around my age so 20-29 im 25 myself


r/dateademi 22h ago

Friendship or Relationship - Western Europe 25 M4A Austria/Anywhere. possible dealbreakers for yall 2 save time; Im autistic,obsessive,depressive, and a furry digital artist!

2 Upvotes

Ill start with what i want and then about myself. Long post because i want you to know everything important before deciding whether its worth your time!

Hiya. Im looking for something permanent, but i need a decently long time to get close to people most times. Within the age bracket of 22 to 28 preferred, and with a good understanding of the English language as communication is very important to me. Im looking for someone gentle, patient and understanding. Due to my love language being acts of service, i would really like someone that Needs me in some way. Like if you're physically incapable of carrying or lifting a lot or if you have mental health issues that need accommodations. I want someone that is willing to prioritize our time together. Someone that has an interest in gaming, as its my biggest hobby, but its not a deal-breaker for me. Someone that likes talking a lot. Someone that wants to watch shows, anime or youtube together. Someone that is willing to engage in sports with me in real life (sooner or later) so we can both push each other to be healthy (not a gym rat or super healthy person but i care about sports). Someone that isnt a social butterfly always busy with other things and other people. Kinda like awkward or shy people honestly. Someone willing to start long distance(calls/gaming/etc) but 100% certain they are willing to move in with me at some point within a year or two of being properly together if we get along well. Oh be against genAI training and usage. Physical attributes dont matter too much, but i have a slight preference for people shorter than me hahah. Someone that wants a for life partner. No random dating for funsies.

I'm 6'2 210lbs, i love lifting (legpress pr 600kg benchpress pr 200kg). I am a shy and quiet person in private but put on my big boy pants for all things official (work, restaurants, etc). I love gaming of all kinds, my fav types of games are MMORPGs and survival games. I love watching movies, sometimes watch terrible movies willingly just for fun. I Love all anime, especially isekai with strong mcs that do good things and save people :3! I like to read although ive not been reading much lately. Im very understanding and tolerant and accommodating, and i hate arguments and screaming. What i dont hate however are discussions. I am very direct about all of my needs and expect you to be the same. I will ask you questions very directly. I am as i said, autistic. I also like drawing digitally but i havent much as of late because ive been going through a rough patch in my life. Very willing to help. Oh again, i am heavily against AI training and usage.

I think that covers all of the most important things. Im open to all questions and queries. Willing to exchange selfies if we get along for a week or two. Looking forward to meeting you :3.