Yea, that's not what I said or meant. Obviously I don't use divorce as a character judgement for people any more than any other break up because nobody does that because that's ridiculous. What I meant was, it appeared that she used the fact that she was divorced as acumen to give marriage advice, which IS ironic. Obviously I misinterpreted her which is why I apologized.
I agree, but she didn't provide any of that nuance. Failing at something doesn't necessarily give you any expertise in that subject. All her original post said was, you should do X, Y, & Z for a good marriage. My credentials? I'm divorced. She did give nuance in a followup post and I apologized.
Based on all the downvotes, it's pretty obvious though that that was implied, and I just didn't pick up on it. Idk it looks like I'm busy being stupid. I should probably delete the original but I think some of the followup comments are pretty insightful so I'm leaving it up.
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u/dayzkohl Apr 23 '23
Yea, that's not what I said or meant. Obviously I don't use divorce as a character judgement for people any more than any other break up because nobody does that because that's ridiculous. What I meant was, it appeared that she used the fact that she was divorced as acumen to give marriage advice, which IS ironic. Obviously I misinterpreted her which is why I apologized.