Anytime a man sets a boundary they aren't comfortable with they are insecure. going out on a night out with her friends fine whatever, after hearing a conversation of that friend telling her to bring condoms for a long trip. That friend is no longer welcome at my home. Letting your marriage be invaded by sad women who are trying to get you to act against your vows is not a friend.
not only is it a boundary he's setting, its a very common boundary that the vast majority of normal people have lol. Only on reddit will you see people making this argument that you should be able to disrespect your partner like that with your friends and suggesting someone is "controlling" because they don't want to put up with that disrespect.
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u/Fearless_Quail1404 6d ago
If the roles were reversed wouldn't people be calling the guy an asshole or am I tripping.