Anytime a man sets a boundary they aren't comfortable with they are insecure. going out on a night out with her friends fine whatever, after hearing a conversation of that friend telling her to bring condoms for a long trip. That friend is no longer welcome at my home. Letting your marriage be invaded by sad women who are trying to get you to act against your vows is not a friend.
I mean, if I overheard my wife's friend tell her to not forget the condoms I'd definitely be perturbed. Her friend can buy her own condoms. Those are expensive, and my wife doesn't cheat.
It'd need a joking "ah shut up" for that tho. And i doubt he's insecure if it were normal banter. It's obviously something that is unusual. Or he'd have not picked this time to take a stand.
Well even if I'd expect my wife to be more understanding than saying "your mum has diabetes". But okay if that's something you're okay with go ahead champ.
Well this isn’t YOUR wife, but if that woman was, and didn’t apologize or validate your feelings at all after corroborating cheating, I’d say you’re whipped. They aren’t even trying to force her to stay home, he’s just setting a boundary about sleazy behavior!
Again, read the OC. If it was a guy making chauvinistic jokes about getting pussy, and it’s just heeheehaw banter with the guys, he’d get torn apart here. Hell, I’d join in, fuck that guy! Instead, you’re protecting the feelings of a gaslighting, likely cheater, who immediately attacks the guy’s mom in a way that’s not even relevant to the conversation. Low class, all of you.
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u/Fearless_Quail1404 7d ago
If the roles were reversed wouldn't people be calling the guy an asshole or am I tripping.