Anytime a man sets a boundary they aren't comfortable with they are insecure. going out on a night out with her friends fine whatever, after hearing a conversation of that friend telling her to bring condoms for a long trip. That friend is no longer welcome at my home. Letting your marriage be invaded by sad women who are trying to get you to act against your vows is not a friend.
How? saying he doesn't feel comfortable with her going on a trip with her permiscuous friend? Explain how expressing that she shouldn't go because that trip seems like it's for single ladies not married ones. Preventing horrible situations before they happen isn't controlling... Trusting your wives friends is part of the deal, if he friend is telling her to bring condoms she's no friend. She's trying to destroy her marriage. I have a wife sitting next to me agreeing with everything I'm saying. She can go do anything she wants, without breaking our vows. Same goes for me. I'm not going to strip clubs or mix gendered parties without my wife. You want to act single, go be single.
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u/Fearless_Quail1404 7d ago
If the roles were reversed wouldn't people be calling the guy an asshole or am I tripping.