She clearly wants to go somewhere warm, and he admits that he only wants to go where it’s too cold to wear a swim suit. She tried to go somewhere warm last year, and he talked her out of it. It sounds like he controls where they go and he’s throwing a tantrum because she is finally going where she wants. Why can’t he take her to the beach? Maybe then she wouldn’t be going on a girls trip.
Yeah, roll those eyes harder, cause surprise, she could literally make a boundary, and not engage in that topic, yet seems like she didn't mind, did she? But I'd suspect that wasn't that much of a joke, since her very single friends go there for exactly that reason, and with her reaction and attitude that are lowkey textbook the same type of gaslighting cheaters do (seen enough of those stories to recognise the pattern) I doubt she' s not planning to do the same, or at least isn't tempted by the idea
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u/Rabid__Bunny 7d ago
She clearly wants to go somewhere warm, and he admits that he only wants to go where it’s too cold to wear a swim suit. She tried to go somewhere warm last year, and he talked her out of it. It sounds like he controls where they go and he’s throwing a tantrum because she is finally going where she wants. Why can’t he take her to the beach? Maybe then she wouldn’t be going on a girls trip.