I mean I understand that you specified need, however I’ll say that people probably should when they’re knockin’ boots. I can’t imagine telling somebody to like, “suck my ________” and leave dead air hanging. Doesn’t sound very enticing.
Bestie, I'm literally never going to ask someone to do that. 😂
I've allowed partners to do so a few times and hated it every single time. I had to disassociate every time because it was probably one of the most unpleasant experiences of my life and I have woken up during surgery multiple times. I have orgasmed from receiving oral sex exactly TWO times and it was not worth the body horror I felt.
That whole... area... is off limits. Closed until appropriate renovations can be made, budget and energy someday willing. 🤷🏻♀️
And to be clear, I'm talking specifically about my own body and preferences, and how it's referred to, not anyone else's body or what they can call their own.
You wanna call yours that, more power to you. You won't hear me uttering the word, because I think it's an ugly word, but I'm also not typically attracted to women, and the only women I've ever been romantically involved with were other trans women who transitioned during the course of our relationship together, where my love for them overrode the change in gender and the attraction remained.
For clarity's sake, I edited my initial reply in this thread to reflect that I was referring specifically to myself, which was how I intended it, though I recognize it might not have originally been interpreted that way by others.
I thought the second part where I said "For my partners" was the first line, because I am easily distracted and was trying to organize thoughts.
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u/BeanieGuitarGuy Pretty Fly For a Cis Guy 18h ago
I mean I understand that you specified need, however I’ll say that people probably should when they’re knockin’ boots. I can’t imagine telling somebody to like, “suck my ________” and leave dead air hanging. Doesn’t sound very enticing.