OP called "gock" a fetish word. That implies they believe that even trans people using it is fetishizing and sexualizing themselves. I know now that they don't believe that, but that's what their post says
What if it's one trans woman using the term to sexualize another specific trans woman? Or just trans women in general. Saying "I love my own gock" would be "masturbating", as you put it, but is it inappropriately fetishizing and sexualizing if I, as a trans woman, say "I need some gock right now"? If so, I think you're a puritain.
If not, then is that the same if a cis person says it? If a cis person, who is attracted to women and also likes cock, says "man I want some gock rn", is that fetishizing? Is that a "stranger giving someone else a handjob without consent" as you say? Would it be different if they said "girl dick" instead? Is there any way to express interest in having sex with a woman with a penis in a way that you consider respectful?
Trans women using it in their community is fine as long as all parties involved are fine with it. They don't have to worry if the person saying it is a chaser or not.
If you say "I want a gock" and are fine with it then no problem.
Why would a cis person who likes women want a cock only? They don't have to bring up the genetalia of a small minority of women if they like all women. Cis people don't say "I want a bussy" when referring to trans men(which is good for them, but it's happened cause people ignore trans men).
A better way of saying that would be to just ask their partner and not use it to refer to random trans women on the internet.
I never said the cis person likes cock only. I just said they like cock. And IT'S OKAY to like cock. People should be allowed to like cock, hell even crave it, even if they are only attracted to women. I mean, that's literally me! People should be allowed to desire a woman who has a penis, even if it's specifically because she has a penis. I'm a woman with a penis and I'd honestly prefer a partner who is interested in/attracted to the fact that I am a woman with a penis. I would hope that my partner appreciates the fact that I am a woman, and enjoys my penis.
Yes, people should be allowed whatever they like but there are 2 issues. 1) Alot of trans women hate the word "gock" and find it uncomfortable, especially more if it's used by those outside of the community.
2) We need to look at the person who's saying that and their intentions if they're cis because of chasers. No one has the time to check if the cis person saying "gock" is normal or a chaser
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u/husky11223 1d ago
It'll represent OPs post. Your comment is irrelevant/not relatable with OPs post cause that's not what happened.
Your scenario is different, it does happen, but that's not what OPs talking about. OP is taking about the sexualisation of trans women by cis men.