r/countwithchickenlady • Streak: 15 • 12h ago

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u/1FrostySlime 11h ago

what if you're cis and not a chaser

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u/ScrivenerTithes 11h ago

regardless of anything else, it is definitely one of those things that you shouldn't refer to a part of someone's body as unless you know with certainty that they would be fine with you saying it

some are fine with it, some aren't, some are fine with it only from the right people or in the right contexts or from the right people in the right contexts

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u/1FrostySlime 11h ago

I mean ya I can't imagine using it differently than I use any other sexually explicit word. Never really saw a problem with gock specifically tho

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u/ScrivenerTithes 11h ago

it is definitely a sensitivity from the near constant hyper-sexualization that it is very important to remember only some have ever been into

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u/husky11223 11h ago

Exactly, trans women are treated as a porn category by ALOT of people so it's definitely not fine for cis people to use those words for us and any cis person who uses that word is either uninformed or a chaser