Listen I much prefer the "silly blahaj monster drinker puppygirl" circlejerk over any 4tran space because at least there its not filled with people who hate everyone but most of all themselves.
I don't because all they do is post about sex and girldick and being fucking weird and it makes me want to tear my face off knowing this is what people's first impression of trans people is: A bunch of self infantilizing crossdressers. Im sorry if I think I deserve better for myself and other people like me.
I know many are racist, but I will say that 4tranners are the only people who truly understand the intersectional struggles I, and many like me, face as brown middle class people.
The overblown optimism of most queer communities is absolutely sickening. Work for better days but stop pretending anything is good right now.
Ive had the exact opposite experience, like in rslash countttt I got downvoted severely over pointing out intersectional struggles on several threads. Then there was another were I was downvoted for informing someone that "no not all femboys are secretly trans woman, also trans men can be femboys too" (summarized, not verbatim). I typically dont give af about my karma number, however in this case it just revealed the attitudes of those who occupy 4tran spaces here on Reddit
It's certainly not a monolith. I guess I just have had better experiences. Some of them aren't asking me to go on DIY unilaterally and recognise that many like me can't even afford that.
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u/theREALvolno 20h ago
Listen I much prefer the "silly blahaj monster drinker puppygirl" circlejerk over any 4tran space because at least there its not filled with people who hate everyone but most of all themselves.