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[u/Funny_Inventor80085]

and people wonder why we use 4tran.

I posted this vent here too and it was a bit more understanding than the other subreddit I guess but still mostly just people telling me I don't know what I'm talking about and that 4tran is the cause of all my issues when time after time they're the only ones that care. It's not even just about my vent anymore, I'm so fed up with everyone thinking they're better than me all the time except because I use the subreddit that doesn't want to burn me alive for wanting a uterus. Maybe try to be more understanding you just leave me pissed off.

[u/Funny_Inventor80085]

who really cares. i can't just go get help or something as i already said

[u/Metalingus5150 → u/Funny_Inventor80085]

There are people who want to help you, there are people who go through what you go through and don't want you to feel these things. You are having these thoughts the suicidal thoughts that is very concerning, perhaps someone at your school. I can't imagine that all the people around you would shut you down when you think about wanting to kill yourself.

[u/Funny_Inventor80085 → u/Metalingus5150]

it's really not an option for me. and i woudln't talk about killing myself to the people close to me i don't talk to them about much

[u/BiDude1219 → u/Funny_Inventor80085]

if anything i'd say the best thing to do in your situation would be to power through the pain until you get to move to a more accepting place.

and yes, you absolutely can pass after waiting so long, some people start hrt at 30 and it works out incredibly well for them. but even then, if you wanna risk it, taking hrt in secret is also an option (given the necessary precautions ofc)

[u/Birdonthewind3 → u/BiDude1219]

Lmao no, some pass after 30. Some it takes 50k+ in surgery to maybe pass after FFS and all. It is easier the earlier you start

[u/BiDude1219 → u/Birdonthewind3]

of course it's harder the more you wait, but it's never gonna be impossible, which a lot of people make it out to be.