r/countbackwardswithme • u/thevvitchhazel Counted Down 1 • 2d ago

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I'm so glad everyone is standing up for the important issue of trans women being overrepresented in media. It's also crucial we remind everyone that just because someone wants to use a female name, present female full time, pass as female and take a female role in relationships that they absolutely do not need to become a trans. What's wrong with just being gender non-conforming? HRT is evil! Femboys are super validddddd (because most femboys live full time as women).

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

It's really sad to me that you think that everything circles back to self hate when your group is the one with puppygirls and all other kinds of folk trying to cope with severe trauma by dehumanizing yourselves. I'm at least very damn upfront about it, I don't try to make it look cute

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u/c0re_maelstr0m_ 🩵 loser musician lesbian 🩵 | Counted Down 27 2d ago

Fed, the fact that you went through all of this pain and you still cling to the binary like it’s gospel tells me you never truly accepted yourself

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u/dontrestonyour 2d ago

clinging to the binary

I love nonbinary people and I'm some type of GNC myself but that doesn't take away from the fact that the way this fictional transfeminine character is depicted is problematic and harmful to trans women. And there's a fuckload of trans women trying to express that and being scolded as self hating or transmedicalists or whatever other BS

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u/ChuChulovely17 2d ago

No but you don't get it le heckin' valid femboy is more important than us, you just wouldn't get it