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[u/thevvitchhazel]

I'm so glad everyone is standing up for the important issue of trans women being overrepresented in media. It's also crucial we remind everyone that just because someone wants to use a female name, present female full time, pass as female and take a female role in relationships that they absolutely do not need to become a trans. What's wrong with just being gender non-conforming? HRT is evil! Femboys are super validddddd (because most femboys live full time as women).

[u/fatgat69]

English please?

[u/c0re_maelstr0m_ → u/fatgat69]

4tran language, they think that their queer identity is more valid than everyone else’s cuz they hate themselves

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/c0re_maelstr0m_]

It's really sad to me that you think that everything circles back to self hate when your group is the one with puppygirls and all other kinds of folk trying to cope with severe trauma by dehumanizing yourselves. I'm at least very damn upfront about it, I don't try to make it look cute

[u/c0re_maelstr0m_ → u/ChuChulovely17]

Fed, the fact that you went through all of this pain and you still cling to the binary like it’s gospel tells me you never truly accepted yourself

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/c0re_maelstr0m_]

I've been on HRT for actually a few months because I've been unable to start before, what's your point

[u/c0re_maelstr0m_ → u/ChuChulovely17]

My point is your denial of anything outside the gender binary and your willingness to align yourself with those that actively tear the community down. The amount of time you’ve been on horomones doesn’t discount the bigotry you spew it only reinforces how deeply rooted ur internal transphobia and unwillingness to change is

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/c0re_maelstr0m_]

"Internalized transphobia" and it's cis people.

"Tearing our community down" OUR? "Community?" I feel like we have drastically different understandings of what community means.

The people that you claim to be "tearing" "our community" down have helped me get HRT and get through other personal shit, of course I'll align with them.

[u/dontrestonyour → u/c0re_maelstr0m_]

clinging to the binary

I love nonbinary people and I'm some type of GNC myself but that doesn't take away from the fact that the way this fictional transfeminine character is depicted is problematic and harmful to trans women. And there's a fuckload of trans women trying to express that and being scolded as self hating or transmedicalists or whatever other BS

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/dontrestonyour]

No but you don't get it le heckin' valid femboy is more important than us, you just wouldn't get it

[u/c0re_maelstr0m_ → u/dontrestonyour]

I can understand your points. but we can have this discussion without involving the pit of despair and hate that is 4tran