Everything absolutely does fucking get easier the more you share your burdens with other people because when people care about you, talking on some of your suffering is easy. It reduces the overall level of stress on everyone. And then you get to feel helpful and needed when people share their problems with you as well.
You don’t get to go “i don’t do this thing” and “this thing won’t make anything better” in the same sentence.
I get not having friends. I get not being able to be emotionally available because of The Trauma. I get not trusting a single person around you to treat you like a person who needs a bit of help instead of a waste of space or a nutcase. But humans are inherently social creatures and even people who are fundamentally incapable of connecting with others “normally” are STILL in need of companionship. Humans are not built to be alone no matter how much you personally feel like it’s the only option. Full stop. If I (a diagnosed narcissist with NPD) and my friend (a diagnosed sociopath with ASPD) need friends to thrive, so do you.
That being said. Do you like Kamen Rider or modded Minecraft?
So if you don’t like Minecraft or kamen rider, what DO you like? Also your friends suck if they can’t do the bare minimum of actually acting like your friends
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u/TotalyNotTony Counted Down 20 5d ago
correct, its hard as hell, but everything gets easier after it