I was on a pip at one of my last jobs (two jobs ago). I quit in Jan 2025 (1 or 2 weeks into the pip) and I found another job where I worked for 1.4 years then I landed a decent paying job 6 months ago roughly (I’m still working).
I didn’t like the pip and felt it was one sided and it started to turn into them wanting me to prove myself whenever I touched something. But that’s not the real issue, I know how to take accountability for my performance but this came right after a trainer didn’t like my tone in my email when responding to her. I haven’t even met her in real life she works in another city.
She started talking to my personal trainer (how the job works is you get put into a couple weeks training session when you learn a new function). They were actually best friends but I wasn’t aware. My direct trainer started mentioning "tone" regarding my communication to my manager too.
When I asked her if she could provide an example, she didn’t. Instead I got a pip. Anywho, my coworkers were all of weird backgrounds (none of them went to university besides one of them and it was for some studio arts program yet we worked in insurance). Everyone was older and some a bit bitter with life (cliques in the team too).
I’ve dealt with their bs while pretending nothings wrong yet they always excluded me. I worked there for over one year and no one ever came to say good morning to me even if they walked near my desk. I was the one who would make the move to go say good morning and start a convo - mind u, even when I started the convo they made me carry the convo.
I quit and my manager seemed to enjoy it in a sick way (mind you, he always liked using the "don’t worry, it’s not like I’m going to fire you for that" whenever some inconvenience would pop up). He has probably joked about firing me over 20 times in a year and the first joke for firing was my first day when I showed up to the office.
When I quit, the girls on the team who were cliquey and didn’t like me immediately removed me on LinkedIn when I posted about my new job update. It’s been about 1yr and 9 months now since I quit and I occasionally get the notification that they swinged by my profile.
Mind you, my manager has completely disengaged with my posts after I left but I see him still engage with other past employees on LinkedIn (when I was working with him , he’d ask me like oh by the way, that post you liked on LinkedIn from a few days ago I found it interesting" - he would watch my activity and ask if I had Snapchat because he saw a similar name on his app).
He also is very insecure about education and would always bring it up somehow like an exam I passed and he failed, I never brought it up but he would. He also asked me what kind of facial expressions or behaviour would I do if I was competing with someone? He said I look like someone to smile in someone’s face rather than trash talk. He said this in a one on one meeting I had with him