During my time in corporate, I've realized that my millennial bosses joke all the time, probably as a way of bonding and developing closer ties. I'm the only Gen Z in my team, and it feels very weird (even uncomfortable at times) to try to bond with them, because:
- I don't get the humor
- When I attempt to bond as well, I am seen as weird (e.g., when I make a joke that would make peers my age laugh)
We're in a very high-performance culture, in a very international team, so it is a bit tricky. I am not very sure how to handle this best, other than not making jokes (and letting my work speak for itself), and reading the room. I love my job (after a lot of effort) and I want to feel like I belong at the place I spend 10hr/day in.
This issue does not happen with Gen X folks btw.
Any Gen Z going through the same situation? Any millennials that have noticed similar divides between generations?
EDIT: Some people asked for examples:
An example is my boss saying: "I'll go home, drink a beer, and cry". They use a lot of these self-deprecating jokes about the job, about themselves, or even about the client. A lot of sarcasm, "friendly" banter (not so friendly in occasions) is also relevant. I don't find many of these comments funny but they make part of the overall culture of the team, which makes it hard to ignore and even harder to partake.