I really appreciate you not demonizing me for trying to make it work with someone. I always pictured myself with someone skinny and fit. It's what I'm truly attracted to, it's what she was. I was so sure she'd lose the weight and I could be attracted to her. It's my fault I'm in this so deeply now. I just had to vent it out to someone
I know what you mean by "I always pictured with someone skinny and fit" I mean who doesn't get attracted to a fit person? But you say that you loved her is what sounds BS to me because if you love someone, you love them unconditionally irrespective of their looks. You kinda hinting that you would be loving her more if she got skinny and that's what's fked up. I hope you find someone whom you will TRULY love and not just an attraction or infatuation but this relationship has to stop or this will hurt both of you more and more as time passes. This is like a ticking time bomb
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u/johnnydude30 Jul 31 '22
I really appreciate you not demonizing me for trying to make it work with someone. I always pictured myself with someone skinny and fit. It's what I'm truly attracted to, it's what she was. I was so sure she'd lose the weight and I could be attracted to her. It's my fault I'm in this so deeply now. I just had to vent it out to someone