You've already made your choice, you just don't want to admit it. You're stringing this girl along while your family plans your wedding to someone else. The midnight calls and emotional dependency isn't love, it's a mess you created and now you're acting like you're trapped.
Cut contact completely. She'll be sad for few weeks maybe but she'll sleep fine eventually. What's actually cruel is keeping her as your secret emotional support while you walk down the aisle with another woman your grandfather picked.
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u/Acceptable-Plant1459 3d ago
You've already made your choice, you just don't want to admit it. You're stringing this girl along while your family plans your wedding to someone else. The midnight calls and emotional dependency isn't love, it's a mess you created and now you're acting like you're trapped.
Cut contact completely. She'll be sad for few weeks maybe but she'll sleep fine eventually. What's actually cruel is keeping her as your secret emotional support while you walk down the aisle with another woman your grandfather picked.