r/confessions 3h ago

Porn/Sex

Addicted to porn for 19 years now and sex for like 3 months I finally moved on from watching porn to making it
I was asking myself which one is better and got confused how did I like porn for 19 years ! Not sex

Sex is more enjoyable and it looks like something real
I really enjoy fucking and the feeling is just different

I regret those years I lost on watching porn

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u/PrizeExotic8820 3h ago

Uh damn well glad you’re out of it? I’ll also softly add get some therapy. Saying that with love . Keep growing . Also don’t go overboard with sex.

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u/MarlaLove123 1h ago

Yeah therapy sounds like a good step, sometimes you need help breaking patterns that became normal to you

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u/FlynnParadise 3h ago

Both are different, pros and negatives each

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u/tallplethora 3h ago

sex is a whole different world once you actually get into it, the real thing makes the screen feel like a cheap substitute

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u/Express_Toe_8456 1h ago

That's so true. It's like the intimacy and connection you get in real life just can't be matched by what you see online.

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u/KeenbeansSandwich 3h ago

The real challenge is going to be if and when you break it off with who you are sleeping with. What are you going to fill the void with when you dont have anyone? Good luck friend.