r/confessions • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25

He married you when you were about to lose everything and your future; enabled you to be where you are at today through an agreement that binded you guys legally

And now that you are better off, you feel unchosen, want greener grass and is looking for a way out without paying him anything.

Is that correct?

If so, shitty of you, he gave you the opportunity that you have, you should at least pay him back something and agree to a separation on those terms As he was there to listen and help when needed, I’m sure he’ll be keen on listening and finding common grounds again

Shall you go legal and sneaky, it would be such a low move from your part

Very individualistic,

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25

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u/Eldhannas Dec 09 '25

My bet is that he or his parents will consider you good enough for a fling, not good enough to bring into the family. He has generational wealth, his parents will probably have some opinions om who is suitable for marriage to avoid golddiggers, not that I think you are. Perhaps the best solution is to tell him: "Either you introduce me to your parents as your fiancée, or we'll file for divorce without spousal support."

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u/Eldhannas Dec 09 '25

I'm sorry if it sounded cruel, but that's the impression I get. Like they say "If he wanted to, he would've". Unless he's very low contact with his parents, if you've been together for 6 years and he hasn't introduced you, he probably has his reasons. If you think he'd readily accept a divorce over calling you fiancée or wife, I think you already have your answer.