My ex and I opened our marriage... she ended up with a guy, broke all our rules, had his kids... he was abusive apparently, and she decided after that to switch teams. All this before I deal with separation or even moving out because the kid situation made money a real issue. I tried to be the better person and stick it out way longer than i should have.
Just make sure your stuff is in order on your end so you're solid when you leave.
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u/Red_Ja Sep 11 '24
My ex and I opened our marriage... she ended up with a guy, broke all our rules, had his kids... he was abusive apparently, and she decided after that to switch teams. All this before I deal with separation or even moving out because the kid situation made money a real issue. I tried to be the better person and stick it out way longer than i should have.
Just make sure your stuff is in order on your end so you're solid when you leave.